Firm hand with loving heart for sub/slav

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Muscular

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Arms

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Computers / Electronic

My Job Title Is

I,T professional

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Jock

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Photography, Exercising, Learning, Music, Movies, Cars, Fishing / Hunting, Camping, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility

I've Always Wanted To Try

skydiving

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool

My Goal In Life Is

To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Instructional, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rap, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae

When I Read, I Always Read

Health, Instructional, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed