Firm but fair

Je sais parler

Anglais

Je me décrirais comme

You are important to me is where I start from. You will be treated with respect if you are honest, reliable and dedicated. I will dominate you in play, but you only submit because you want to, and must still to want to submit after you have played. You will be cared for in play and after it, and not stressed in your vanilla life with unreasonable demands. I will learn all about you, your likes and dislikes, fetishes and fantasies, limits and taboos. You will learn of mine. If they overlap sufficiently then you may be a play partner for me, and I for you. We should both gain satisfaction and fulfilment from or complimentary roles through sharing the activities. A Dom is gifted with a woman’s submission and with it comes responsibilities I take very seriously. If this resonates with you, read on….

Professionally, I’ve had to be very mobile recently and have taken a fee holiday so currently only have standard membership. I’ve met some good partners on this site and will continue to use it. If you like my profile then send me a flirt and I’ll send one back if I like yours too. If you are bored and like a puzzle, see if you can work out where I am from where I’ve been. I like women who can use their brains. If you are not bored you probably don’t need to talk to me, lol. In the last year I’ve been to Andover, Bracknell, Epsom, London, Portsmouth, Luton, Abingdon, Yarmouth, Eastleigh, Ramsgate, Alton, Tunbridge, Orpington, Uckfield, Tamworth, Lichfield, Oxford x2, Kidderminster, Dudley, Oldham, Todmorden, Chesterfield, Ossett and Manchester. I get around!

If you are new, then the first thing you get is some advice. It’s free, with no obligations and will probably save you an unpleasant experience. What are you waiting for? I’m only a puzzle away.

Signe

Gémeaux

Ma silhouette est

Normale

Ma taille est

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Mes yeux sont

Marrons

Mon origine ethnique est

Européenne

Ma situation maritale est

Célibataire

J'ai des enfants

Oui - pas chez moi

Je veux des enfants

Non

Ce que j'ai de mieux

Jambes

Art Corporel

Même pas envisageable

Mes cheveux sont

Poivres et sel

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Chat

Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs

Non

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Diplôme d'études supérieures

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Auto-entrepreneur

Mon domaine de compétence est

Education / Académique

Mon titre de fonction est

Consultant

J'ai gagné cette année

De 15,000 € à 29,999 €

Je vis

Seul/e

Chez moi

C'est plutôt calme

Je fume

Non

Je bois de l'alcool

Oui - socialement

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Tête

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Comique, Sombre, Sympa, Observateur, Ouvert

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Ordinateurs, Cuisine, Dîner , Famille, Internet, Jardinage, Apprendre, Musique, Photographie, Jeux de cartes, Lecture, Théâtre, Voyages, Bénévolat

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Boire un coup, Faire du shopping, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée, Se déguiser, Me relaxer, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

It’s got to be tea and buns first; a frank chat about what we can give each other. That builds on what has passed between us in earlier communications. If that can be done in pleasant surroundings with food and nice wine, so much the better. If that doesn’t work then it’s probably not going any further.

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

Talk to me personally about it.

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, Trublion, Obscur/e, Un amour

Ma religion c'est

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

Je vais à la messe

Une fois par an

Mon but dans la vie c'est

Fulfilment of all my dreams and fantasies

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Vicelard, Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Obscur/e, Bouffon, Coquin/e

A la télévision, je regarde

Je n'aime pas la télévision

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires, Famille, Animation, Thrillers, Adultes

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Blues, Classique, Country, Electro, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Rock, Soul

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Autobiographies, Biographies, Ordinateurs, Histoire, Maison & jardin, Programmes instructifs, Mathématiques, Nature, Actualités, Philosophie, Poésie, Politique, Œuvres de référence, Satires, Sciences, Ouvrages techniques

Mon idée du fun

Sending a sub into subspace and bringing her safely back. It gives me a buzz and that is addictive and irresistible. And if you don't get a buzz at the same time that is a waste of the power you give up to me. It can only be fun for both even if it is in very different ways.

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Audace, Séduction, Talents, Intelligence, Etrangeté, Pouvoir, Spontanéité, Bon sens

Que recherchez-vous?

It does not matter what level of experience you have, it is commitment and reliability that count most. If what you want is to try BDSM for the first time that’s fine with me. There is no harm in trying and then being honest and saying it’s not for you. I will not try to turn a vanilla woman into a sub if she has not got it in her to play that role. But you won’t know unless you try. If you rate yourself as more experienced then talk to me. As the picture caption says, there is more to BDSM than some handcuffs, a collar, a cane and a blindfold. Play appropriate to your experience is what you will get.

You must have a clean bill of health. Non-smokers preferred but a light smoker or trying to give up is ok. Just be honest, want to take part and turn up at the agreed time, no time wasters will be given a second chance.

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement, Autre, Peu importe, Sexe oral, Sexe anal, Domination, Bondage, Sexe attaché, Sexe discret