Looking for curious minds
DSmith39
Kitchener, Ontario | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a quieter, more patient Dom.
I understand that everyone is different, and what for one person might seem no big deal, for another it would seem too much. In bdsm it is important to advance at your own pace, and to feel comfortable at all times.
I believe the most important element to any relationship, or interaction is honesty, even more so in bdsm. A sub must feel free to express hesitations, and concerns, and all hard limits must be respected. A Dom must never assume that a sub will change their hard limits with time.
I believe honesty builds trust, and only through trust can a sub find their true self. Actions, and activities that may have caused hesitation your first time with a Dom, may become more appealing, even desirable when a sub trusts that their Dom will keep them safe.
I understand that everyone is different, and what for one person might seem no big deal, for another it would seem too much. In bdsm it is important to advance at your own pace, and to feel comfortable at all times.
I believe the most important element to any relationship, or interaction is honesty, even more so in bdsm. A sub must feel free to express hesitations, and concerns, and all hard limits must be respected. A Dom must never assume that a sub will change their hard limits with time.
I believe honesty builds trust, and only through trust can a sub find their true self. Actions, and activities that may have caused hesitation your first time with a Dom, may become more appealing, even desirable when a sub trusts that their Dom will keep them safe.
Sign
Libra
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
6' 1 (1.85 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Yes
My Best Feature Is
Smile
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Manufacturing / Distribution
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Sports, Learning, Internet, Cooking
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Trying New Things, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Would totally depend upon the person I am meeting. Something that we are both interested in so that we can calm the jitters between us, and relax.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Scuba diving.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Atheist
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To be happy, and enjoy the ride.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Slapstick
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Sports, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy
When I Read, I Always Read
History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Science, Sports
My Idea Of Fun Is
Doing something new, and trying new things. I like going to food, or drink festivals, and discovering new items I have never encountered before.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
When looking for a sub I look for someone that I click with not just physically, but on a mental level. I look for someone that can make me laugh, and someone that definitely has imagination.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Internet Buddy, Friend, Intimate, Domination, Bondage