Fantasies to Reality

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Hi. My name is Kathandra. 5'4, long red hair, a little padding in the right places with hazel green eyes.
I am a published author of a D&S novel, and currently work as both a writer and work as a phone operator for a counseling agency. I am hoping to save up enough money for college to study languages and dispute resolution. I would love to be a mediator and help people resolve problems.
As long as I can remember I have been interested in spanking, physical punishment, and the ideas of being controlled and feeling at peace under a dominant person. When I was a teenage and to this day I have been writing spanking stories on news groups. I worked as a submissive for a club for one summer. I am very knowledgeable about the community from a virtual stand point.
Now I have decided that I would like to try having an in person relationship with someone who feels the same way I do but from the tops perspective. I am only looking for woman and am most interested in the domestic aspects of BDSM. My favorite fantasies include my being a daughter or a ward or a chamber maid who has to be punished for my own good.
I am hoping to meet a female dom in person in my area with similar fantasies who could play on a regular basis. I am open to a variety of relationships: from someone who enjoys playing with me and with who I can be friends, to something that grows into a romance, and anything in between. :) For someone who enjoys playing with me. Above all someone who sees my submissive side and me not as something to be taken advantage of, but rather as a gift.

Sign

Libra

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 4 (1.63 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Yes

My Best Feature Is

Chest

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

Exotic Animal, Reptile

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Part-time

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

Author

I Make This Much In A Year

Less Than $14,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Boisterous, Comedic, Friendly, Shy

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Computers, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A dinner at a niceish restaurant where we can talk and get to know each other.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Parachuting!

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Sadistic, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Classical, Electronic, Folk, New age, Pop

When I Read, I Always Read

Ancient, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Philosophy, Poetry, Science Fiction, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

Being in the care of a controlled and affectionate dom.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

I really take people one personality at a time, and see if I click for them. I don't and huge preferences other than that their be respect.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Domination, Bondage