NYC man sks Domme for LT DD relationship
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Ik spreek:
Engels
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 55 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.
I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.
First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered pain tolerance. I don't mind some pain and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.
I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.
First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered pain tolerance. I don't mind some pain and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.
Sterrenbeeld
Maagd
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
BBW
Mijn Lengte Is
5' 6 (1.68 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Groen
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Nooit getrouwd
Ik Heb Kinderen
Nee
Ik Wil Kinderen
Niet Zeker
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Ogen
Body Art
Ik zou er niet eens aan denken
Mijn Haar Is
Kaal
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Geen huisdieren
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Nee
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
VWO
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Gepensioneerd
Mijn specialisatie is
Bouw / Ambacht
Mijn functie is:
retired
Mijn jaarsalaris is:
Minder dan € 15.000
Ik Woon
Alleen
Bij mij thuis
Is het lekker rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Nee
Ik Drink
Ja - Een Of Twee
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Stil
In sociale situaties ben ik
Verlegen
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Lezen, Knutselen, Muziek, Films, Internet, Vissen / Jagen
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Een boek lezen
Een perfecte eerste date is
whatever my date feels comfortable doing.\
Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:
Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.
For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro torture, being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm cross dressing or verbal abuse, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.
For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro torture, being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm cross dressing or verbal abuse, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Obscuur
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Iets Anders
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Op Feestdagen
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
find that special someone
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Droge Humor / Sarcastisch
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Ik wou dat ik een tv had
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Science Fiction, Horror
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Country, Rock, Metal, Blues, Folk
Ik lees graag
Fantasy, Geschiedenis, Science Fiction, Technisch
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Being with someone I care about
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Spontaniteit, Moed, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Humor
Wat zoek je?
Someone whose interests are complementary to mine. Someone I find attractive which doesn't mean they have to be a supermodel.
I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.
She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.
I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.
I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.
She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.
I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Vastigheid, Een Huwelijk, Dominatie, Bondage, Voorbinder Seks