Looking for my Master
Shammy47
Barrie, Ontario | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
STOP !!!! DO NOT MESSAGE ME UNLESS WE ARE COMPATIBLE !!!
I am not looking for just sex, play, role play and I am not interested in poly households. If you are not from the Barrie area or within an hour's drive, do not message me unless you are willing to come here to meet me. This means you will be paying for a hotel which I will not go to the first, or even second time we meet.
I am looking for my LIFE. This means a full time totally committed long term monogamous relationship. I am not driving right now so you will have to come to me. If you are not willing, or able, to invest the time to build this type of relationship, in person, not on the computer, please don't waste my time or yours. Thank you for your respect and consideration.
I am quiet and shy at first but playfully mischievous once I feel comfortable and I like cookies :-) This barbarian is ever amazed, innocent but intelligent. Want to know more? Get to know me.
When I yank on my leash, what will you do?
A) Allow it to go slack
B) Yank back as hard as you can
C) Hold it patiently firm
D) Get mad and storm off
I miss my collar & I miss that relationship even more. I can't be a partial or part time slave. I started looking into BDSM and found I do not fit into any of the sub categories The closest I come is a sensualist. I care nothing about your money and less about your portfolio. If you can support yourself, that's all that matters to me.
Many of you will answer something other than C to the question above. One may even say if I was Gorean, I would never yank my chain. You may jump to the power side of things instead of looking at the possibilities and weighing the options. The first question you should have thought of is. "why did she yank her chain?" That leads to another thought and that is, do you have the patience or knowledge required to own a human being. I did not write what follows, but it is perfect to me. Gorean Masters are extremely patient.
Any good wench, will challenge a man. She will test her boundaries, push and nudge. Sometimes she is obvious, sometimes she is subtle. But she is ALWAYS tugging at her leash. She needs to feel the resistance, to know that the leash is held, because it makes her feel safe. If you let the leash go slack, she will slip away. If you yank it too hard, she will choke and die. It is a simple, constant tension, that defines a man as a Master. It is not empty vapid threats and stomping off like a child. It is the passing of a look of disapproval, a subtle graceful thing that a Master does as an act of love. When she yanks hard, he does not yank back as hard as he can. If anything he shows her in his calm grasp that he is merciful and could do worse. If he punishes her, it is not out of revenge, but out of love. Desire not to see her suffering, but her learning. To comfort her with his strength, within her boundaries. That she will feel safe and become the caregiver she is bred to be.
Nothing is more important to a Gorean than that which is perishable. That includes his slave. Secondly is beauty. A Gorean slave does not lie but provides absolute obedience and exquisite beauty to her Master. Loyalty is never in question, respect, adoration, and an ever increasing desire to please. This is not just in the bedroom but in life. It isn't a part time relationship or one taken for granted. You must be willing to put your entire self into something if you expect me to put my entire self into your hands. You also have to be strong enough to control me and that doesn't mean physically. Men love feisty and intelligent slaves. It provides them with a challenge and you will get that with me.
Demonstrate to me your honour, strength, knowledge and patience, and I will follow you faithfully to the City of Dust. If you break me, I am not mend able If you lose me, I am not replaceable. I may be nothing more than a little slave girl, no different than a bosk, but once I am your slave girl, you will have me for life.
I am not looking for just sex, play, role play and I am not interested in poly households. If you are not from the Barrie area or within an hour's drive, do not message me unless you are willing to come here to meet me. This means you will be paying for a hotel which I will not go to the first, or even second time we meet.
I am looking for my LIFE. This means a full time totally committed long term monogamous relationship. I am not driving right now so you will have to come to me. If you are not willing, or able, to invest the time to build this type of relationship, in person, not on the computer, please don't waste my time or yours. Thank you for your respect and consideration.
I am quiet and shy at first but playfully mischievous once I feel comfortable and I like cookies :-) This barbarian is ever amazed, innocent but intelligent. Want to know more? Get to know me.
When I yank on my leash, what will you do?
A) Allow it to go slack
B) Yank back as hard as you can
C) Hold it patiently firm
D) Get mad and storm off
I miss my collar & I miss that relationship even more. I can't be a partial or part time slave. I started looking into BDSM and found I do not fit into any of the sub categories The closest I come is a sensualist. I care nothing about your money and less about your portfolio. If you can support yourself, that's all that matters to me.
Many of you will answer something other than C to the question above. One may even say if I was Gorean, I would never yank my chain. You may jump to the power side of things instead of looking at the possibilities and weighing the options. The first question you should have thought of is. "why did she yank her chain?" That leads to another thought and that is, do you have the patience or knowledge required to own a human being. I did not write what follows, but it is perfect to me. Gorean Masters are extremely patient.
Any good wench, will challenge a man. She will test her boundaries, push and nudge. Sometimes she is obvious, sometimes she is subtle. But she is ALWAYS tugging at her leash. She needs to feel the resistance, to know that the leash is held, because it makes her feel safe. If you let the leash go slack, she will slip away. If you yank it too hard, she will choke and die. It is a simple, constant tension, that defines a man as a Master. It is not empty vapid threats and stomping off like a child. It is the passing of a look of disapproval, a subtle graceful thing that a Master does as an act of love. When she yanks hard, he does not yank back as hard as he can. If anything he shows her in his calm grasp that he is merciful and could do worse. If he punishes her, it is not out of revenge, but out of love. Desire not to see her suffering, but her learning. To comfort her with his strength, within her boundaries. That she will feel safe and become the caregiver she is bred to be.
Nothing is more important to a Gorean than that which is perishable. That includes his slave. Secondly is beauty. A Gorean slave does not lie but provides absolute obedience and exquisite beauty to her Master. Loyalty is never in question, respect, adoration, and an ever increasing desire to please. This is not just in the bedroom but in life. It isn't a part time relationship or one taken for granted. You must be willing to put your entire self into something if you expect me to put my entire self into your hands. You also have to be strong enough to control me and that doesn't mean physically. Men love feisty and intelligent slaves. It provides them with a challenge and you will get that with me.
Demonstrate to me your honour, strength, knowledge and patience, and I will follow you faithfully to the City of Dust. If you break me, I am not mend able If you lose me, I am not replaceable. I may be nothing more than a little slave girl, no different than a bosk, but once I am your slave girl, you will have me for life.
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 2 (1.57 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Chief Operations Officer
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Observant, Reserved
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Computers, Dancing, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
public meeting, perhaps coffee
I've Always Wanted To Try
being tied up and played with
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Perfect, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
I have big dreams :-)
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly, Goofy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Romance
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Classical, Country, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, News, Poetry, Romance, Supernatural, Reference, Science
My Idea Of Fun Is
mischief
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
A long term relationship with my Master in total power exchange
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed, Domination, Bondage