Love well, whip well - Benjamin Franklin
azotar
Phoenix, Arizona | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Sorry for the vanilla photos. They are all I've got on hand. Don't worry, I'm kinkier than I look...
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
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Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
________________
Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
Sign
Sagittarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Research / Science / Engineering
My Job Title Is
Director
I Make This Much In A Year
$100,000USD To $150,000USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
There Is Always A Party Going On
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Once A Year
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
Three goals: First, enter into an exclusive loving power-exchange LTR. Second, do well by my children. Third, succeed in my work helping people and providing a comfortable living for the people I care for.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Country, Dance, Electronic, Industrial, Jazz, Latin, New age, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Romance, Supernatural, Reference, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is
Going out doing something completely vanilla -- eat dinner, see a movie, meet with friends, see a concert, whatever -- but have our own secret set of BDSM relationship rules we are following the whole time. Perfect combination of vanilla and chocolate...
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Wit
What Do You Look For?
She's unique. She doesn't follow prescribed gender or bdsm roles. She's comfortable with herself. She takes care of her body. She's intelligent and passionate about what she does. She values conversation. She appreciates being a good parent. She has a great sense of humor and displays it both by thinking I'm funny (I do try hard) and being funny herself. She loves completely and exclusively (doesn't mean she doesn't play with others). If she's dominant she's sweet, empathetic, direct, strict, and a disciplinarian. If submissive, she's rebellious, playful, loving, and masochistic.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Date, Intimate, Committed, Domination