Just a Guy looking for a girl........
baysider105
Cardiff, United Kingdom | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm here, once again hoping to find that elusive person who understands , wants and needs the core dynamics of a lifestyle that, when applied correctly can be more intense, closer and deeper than anything experienced in the so called ' vanilla' world.
Someone who may or may not be experienced but who finds themselves drawn like the proverbial moth to a flame when matters BDSM are around. Someone who is so tempted that to merely singe their fingers wouldn't be enough, they want their soul scorched and permanently marked. Their inner soul aching to cry out - this is me and this is what I am .
I still remember vividly my first experience of this lifestyle in my late teens and couldn't really understand the intense feelings it evoked in me.I couldn't shake it off and in time, I researched everything I could about this moving experience, and all I had done was view it, I hadn't even had the physical pleasure , but mentally I was marked for life.
With help , i've matured into an experienced understanding realist who believes in the true meanings of the lifestyle and its roots.
The subtle mental approach is what I offer and hope I am looking in the right place. That's not to say I'm not physical,as this is also very important, but the physical is nothing without the mental and verbal. The body may give itself away but the breaking down of the doors in your mind is so much more enjoyable, especially so , when you find yourself unlocking them and willingly letting Me in. Physical and bodily responses are so much more intense if this can be achieved.
Be yourself , open and honest when contacting. I will obviously return this courtesy.
Alternatively if you would just like to chat, I'm happy for that too as if any experience I have can help I'm happy to give it. It's a hard enough road to walk alone and barefoot .
I have wide and varied experience over the years but know that experience is a personal thing and at this point I have no experience of you. Yet
Someone who may or may not be experienced but who finds themselves drawn like the proverbial moth to a flame when matters BDSM are around. Someone who is so tempted that to merely singe their fingers wouldn't be enough, they want their soul scorched and permanently marked. Their inner soul aching to cry out - this is me and this is what I am .
I still remember vividly my first experience of this lifestyle in my late teens and couldn't really understand the intense feelings it evoked in me.I couldn't shake it off and in time, I researched everything I could about this moving experience, and all I had done was view it, I hadn't even had the physical pleasure , but mentally I was marked for life.
With help , i've matured into an experienced understanding realist who believes in the true meanings of the lifestyle and its roots.
The subtle mental approach is what I offer and hope I am looking in the right place. That's not to say I'm not physical,as this is also very important, but the physical is nothing without the mental and verbal. The body may give itself away but the breaking down of the doors in your mind is so much more enjoyable, especially so , when you find yourself unlocking them and willingly letting Me in. Physical and bodily responses are so much more intense if this can be achieved.
Be yourself , open and honest when contacting. I will obviously return this courtesy.
Alternatively if you would just like to chat, I'm happy for that too as if any experience I have can help I'm happy to give it. It's a hard enough road to walk alone and barefoot .
I have wide and varied experience over the years but know that experience is a personal thing and at this point I have no experience of you. Yet
Sign
Aquarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Butt
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Hospitality / Travel
My Job Title Is
Manager
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Jock
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Dining, Exercising, Reading, Sports, Movies, Travel, Cooking, Cars
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Somewhere we could talk and listen but not be heard
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
To find that one special girl who has a need to follow, learn and kneel
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Ambient, Soul, Reggae, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Science Fiction, Sports
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
Submissive, Honesty , respect, willing to learn
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Date, Intimate, Committed