Looking for the right sub
bigjohnmc57
Pompano Beach, Florida | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a DOM looking for a sub not any sub but one who knows the true meaning of a D/s relationship. For the sub she must be very self-confident, have high self-esteem knows what she wants, be able to commutate well and trusting.The DOM needs to understand that the sub is putting all her trust into his hands and that is a very big responsibility. He must commutate, show his sub the he is open to her needs and not just his. The sub in many ways have more power than the Dom.Most people think just the opposite of the D/s relationship. That the sub has no self-esteem, no self-confidence and the only way for her to get a man is by being a sub. That is a slut or a sex slave. I would never treat you as either. A brow beaten woman is not a sub. I may tell you what to do but most likely we already talked about or just pushing the envelope a bit more. Never be mean or mistreat you in anyway.Also a D/s relationship is not just about sex. It is a way of live for both the Dom and sub. It’s about open commutation, trust on both sides and love too. The Dom must know what the sub wants and she must trust him.I do think that the D/s live style is not for everyone and we may both agree in general terms want goes into a D/s relationship, but we still may not be right for each other.Let’s meet for a drink, lunch, and open honest, non-judgmental conversation. No pressure and no expatiations.
Sign
Aquarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
My Hair Is
Brown
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is
Flirtatious, Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Photography
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Extreme Sports, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Jazz, Latin, Pop, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
History
My Idea Of Fun Is
meeting for dinner and who know's whats next
Looking for
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage