single and looking

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

A little wild at times, personable, easy to get along with (which I've learned isn't always the best trait), and reserved as far as dating is concerned.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Butt

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

There Is No Noise

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Business, Erotica, History, Instructional, Music, Science

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

I was active in the BDSM scene for 9 years in Boston. Due to nights and weekends taken up with employment, I haven't been since 2010. I've played at parties and retreats, mostly impact play with no sex but never met anyone I was interested in and at the same time available, to play privately. So I'd like to explore privately in regards to play, discussion and some sort of relationship. Because people are different than the main stream, we get a bad rap in regards to what people think is going on at these parties. There are probably some exceptions, but for the most part they are substance free and I found people more conservative and concerned with other people's well being than in other facets of society where people get inebriated, indifferent and reckless. They are also more discriminatory and gossipy, due to the few people involved. I think especially for the people in relationships, parties were more of a social gathering of like minds as opposed to a focus on play. Retreats were different.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Domination, Bondage