Kinky and Hopeless Romantic Mix

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a 47 yo white female submissive who considers herself an intelligent, independent, fun loving, adventurous person. I've been in the lifestyle just over 6 years and have a variety of experiences, but have found my niche in the realm of sensual submission. I adore bondage of any type and also enjoy a sensual flogging, cropping or single tail session. Basically anything that pleasantly arouses the senses I have found enjoyable. I'm not the slightest bit interested in pain or humiliation.

I've become a bit disillusioned with the lifestyle of late because I have come in contact with so many people who seem to be more into self-gratification and having an "excuse" to be their domineering, jackass selves, rather than being what I was taught and have experienced as true Doms. Domination is of course about the exertion of control,but it is not an excuse to be a jackass. A true Dom is someone who takes charge of a submissive and the responsibility of her health and well-being. Does a responsible owner misuse what belongs to Them? If they do, they don't have it very long.

I yearn for a very specific type of Dominant. One which I, unfortunately, have not come across recently. First and foremost, I need a Dominant who is highly intelligent. One who will challenge me mentally and enjoys a good stimulating conversation and is secure enough to even have His opinion challenged on topics in conversation.I need someone who craves to know how my mind works and what excites me mentally, thus understanding that mental stimulation far exceeds the physical. Someone who sees my need to stimulate my craving to sensual submission and bondage, yet is able to cater to my hopeless romantic side too.....even allowing me to lavish romantic gestures upon Him. If I can ever find a Dom capable of this mixture of activities, I will have found my true place.

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

speech/language pathologist

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting at a coffee shop, chatting and if we found each other interesting, going for a walk in the area as we continued our conversation. If the interest level continued, going to a lively (not equivolent to loud) restaurant and talking over dinner. Finally ending in a comfy local bar for some more conversation and flirting if the mood struck us.

I've Always Wanted To Try

learning to do rope bondage and to be an erotic photographer...a really good one!!!

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Ultimately, my goal in life is to be happy and content with myself and my place in life and to find someone with whom I can share that

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Pop, Jazz, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Classic, Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

My idea of fun totally depends upon my mood, my environment and the people I am around. My hobbies include, but are not limited to: photography, visiting museums/galleries, collecting frogs/blown glass balls/pottery, reading, watching movies, listening to music or audiobooks, exploring new places, expanding my mind, good food/wine/intelligent conversation, bondage, sensual flogging/cropping/single tailing, wax play, being spontaneous and adventurous

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

First and foremost I look for someone who is intelligent. Without that, there will be no interest for me. Beyond that, someone who is confident, has a great sense of humour, is capable of making you instantly at ease, is sensitive to others needs and feelings and is capable of spontaneity and adventurousness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Domination, Bondage, Date