aching for new adventure

I Can Speak

English, French

I Would Describe Myself As

Never been able to shake the thrill that an ex who turned pro dom for awhile provided, but we have been apart for a long time. It's once again an itch I need to scratch badly.Ideally I guess I'd like to find a relationship which incorporates dominance and submission in a fluid manner. Enjoy equally the role of strong dominant, especially spanking, rope/leater bondage and crafting inventive scenerios, as well as being slavishly submissive and being subjected to punishment of all sorts. I love taking absolute control but another part of me loves completely giving up that control. My dream girl or special friend is tied to bed and begs for my belt one night, while another she gets a gleam in her eye and Im bound and gagged and made into her bitch. Either set up with the right person could be completely satisfying though. Very turned on by idea of watching other couples of every combination, but never had it happen. A huge spectrum of experimentation is sought, the more spontaneous and open minded the person the better. I read quite a bit - literature, philosophy, politics and religion and appreciate greatly an inquisitive nature and love of books in a partner. "Intellectual" is probably the sort of person I am most compatible with, but there have been some definite exceptions. I enjoy chess . Early 30s dark blonde longer hair, 6'1 155 lbs, grad school. Music - blues, classic rock, punk and old jazz - are very important to me. I hike often, sometimes travelling to do so. Don't smoke, but drink socially, somewhat often. Occasionally indulge in other things but not consistently. I can appreciate a really wide range of attractive women, the only necessity being a healthy weight and intelligence. I want to delve deeper into all kinds of activities while I'm still young enough to really enjoy them.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Hair

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some University

My Current Employment Status Is

Part-time

My Speciality Is

Legal

My Job Title Is

Research assistant, paralegal

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Often

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

On a "date", this could be so many things but I guess Intelligent conversation with kind girl who can't stop laughing and teasing me throughout dinner at a nice restaurant, a more than adequate amount of wine, a great live guitarist, then I suppose whatever my partner might be comfortable with after we have gotten to know each other.

I've Always Wanted To Try

There are quite a few things; but snorkeling and exploring a coral reef, hiking the high desert and the pyramids of Central America top the list with regard to that kind of stuff.

On the other end of things, extended role playing, and scenerios involving people watching and being watched. Maybe two guys and a girl, or two girls with me. To feel really empowered and trusted for a while as the twisted but attentive master to a girl with voracious appetites and a gorgeous ass. On other occasion to surrender that power and become a little obedient bitch, rewarded with black boots and formidable strap ons. The thrill of a girl much older or younger, dangerously but legally so. Perhaps this is too detailed, pretty new to this...

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Obscure

My Religion Is

Agnostic

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Libertarian

My Goal In Life Is

Return to school to obtain a masters degree in the field of historic preservation and find engaging work in that area. To explore more beautiful places here and abroad, hopefully with someone I have a deep connection and lots of fun with. To learn to play the guitar, at least a little.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Horror

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Metal, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

Learning from people and books, laughing at myself, being around kind and complex people, great live music, hiking and outdoor exploration, especially in the Western U.S. Creating shared worlds with a person who is special to me. Spontaneous adventures of every sort, from surprising sex to woodland trecks at night.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

Adventuresome partner with intelligence, empathy and dark wit. Highly experimental and maybe slightly mad. I especially appreciate the right words and stories from the mouth of a beautiful woman, and could get off with these alone. She loves to read, and opens up her mind along with everything else. We play exciting games together, or maybe even with others . Ideally we'd switch things up, but thats not necessary. She lets me pick out black leather for her .

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Secretive Sex, Group Sex, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date, Just Wanna Fuck