Looking for Love in all the right Knots

I Can Speak

English, Spanish

I Would Describe Myself As

I am driven man who wants more out of his life and will not settle both in my personal goals or in what I want in a soul mate. I don't expect perfection, because I cannot offer the same in return, but I do believe that there is that person who is my equal and opposite in every way that is right. I fulfill their needs and wants as they do mine, not because we have to, but just because it comes naturally and fits. I am a degreed professional who believes in staying active and staying in shape. I am always pushing myself to take on new challenges and if you want someone to order you to get my beer and bring it to me on the couch,then I am not your guy. I will get my own damn beer. I have gone through my own hard times in recent years as many of you have. But I know what I want and I will not settle for less. But I also know how to please a woman, even when she is my slave. How to make her feel excited, and how to push her to her limits. I don't claim to be an expert, but in this lifestyle it is about control... control of your mind, your imagination, your will and your body. If you can truly find the courage to walk that path, then the rewards are unbelieveable. I am looking for someone who complements me and is willing to explore that path with me. If you are willing to learn as I am, we can explore it and much more together. Because at the end of the day all we really have is each other.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Muscular

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Black

My Ethnicity Is

Hispanic/latino

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Butt

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Project Manager

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Camping, Cars, Computers, Dancing, Dining, Exercising, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Sports, Theater, Travel, Tv, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Museum, Relaxing, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Would be to be out with a beautiful woman, who I can really connect with. Someone who can make me relax and laugh, yet who can also hold an intelligent conversation. Someone who likes to have fun and joke, and is not afraid to try new things. But most of all someone who has the femine instincts to know when to be causual and when to dress up just enought to create, what I like to call "sexual tension". It is that feeling that a guy gets when he says to himself, "God she looks amazing... and what I would give to have her" Even if nothing happens at the end of the date, that desire is what keeps us coming back for more. Add in great humor and companionship and he is there for life.

I've Always Wanted To Try

This one, I will leave to when we meet and talk. Then we can both explore our desires together.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

The details I will leave till we talk, but at a high level, they are to continue to grow, learn, better myself and my lifestyle and to explore new things.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Jazz, Latin, Pop, Rock

When I Read, I Always Read

Business, Computers, Fiction, History, Science, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

I enjoy staying active. I like to go dancing, horseback riding, hiking, traveling, roadtrips, wine tasting, car racing (especially rallies and autocrosses), martial arts, biking. I also like acting and directing in community theatre and in film. The thing I really like about acting is that I can be different people at the different times. I especially enjoy being the bad guy, in murder mysteries or dramas, because it allows me to explore my dark side which is where I draw my instints for the BDSM lifestyle. Finally I like taking continuing educ classes to explore and learn new things, such as kyacking and kendo.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

A woman who is my equal and my opposite. A woman who can be my best friend and partner, but most of all is not afraid to explore new things. Indeed, someone who is driven by the same needs to explore the BDSM lifestyle to find her own satisfaction and completeness. Living this lifestyle does not mean that she cannot also be reliable and true to her word. Flakes come and go, but that one person who can walk that path with me, will be there for me in the good times and the bad times, just as I would be there for her. Finally someone who will not marginalize our relationship by taking it for granted. To keep the relationship alive and exciting, you have to work on it everyday by keeping it a high priority, in spite of what life throws at you.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Bondage, Vacation Fuck