SEEKING STRENGTH
ironfist64
Orlando, Florida | Homem Procurando um Mulher
Informação Básica
Me Descreveria Como
I was once asked what a "true Dom" is. I considered the question at length. The answer that I developed was this:
A "true Dom" is someone who understands that this life we lead is not simply about control. It is not about controlling another person. It is not about keeping that person chained or bound. It is not about inflicting pain on another human being, no matter how creatively one might do so. It is about binding that person to you. It is about making that person want to obey you. It is about making that person want...no, need to be bound and hurt by you...even if for no other reason that your own personal amusement and enjoyment.
I am in a long-term relationship. She is aware. In fact, she is a very skilled Domme in her own right. We have no secrets. We have no jealousies. I have my friends. She has hers. We have some friends that are mutual. While I do not seek someone to serve us both, should a suitable candidate seek that, I do not rule it out. Regardless, I require that she, and our relationship, be shown the proper degree of respect at all times, and in all situations.
I have been alternately described as intense, extreme, diabolical, dark, twisted, evil and an edge player. Aside from the givens...death and kids...my only limit is my imagination. I have not even begun to stretch the boundaries of my imagination. Nor have I found anyone with whom I could attempt to.
There is a decidely sexual bent to my play, and everything that I do within the life. I have a sense of humor, twisted as it may be. You should as well. I can make you cry in a heartbeat. To make you laugh requires true commitment. To bounce you back and forth from one to the other requires artistry.
So what does someone such as I seek in this life?
I seek someone who understand the concept of "chattel" and "property". Who understands that the words "cunt", "whore", and "slut" can be terms of endearment and praise.
I seek someone who is willing to dig deeply into the dark recesses of their psyche and pull out those slithering needs and cravings that are afraid of the light of day...the fantasies that one is afraid to give voice to...someone who will dig that deep knowing full well that I will shine light on them, fulfill them...and, yes...even put my own evil twist to them, leaving one to wonder "Did that really just happen??"
I seek someone who possesses the burning need, and the intestinal fortitude, to live by the mantra "My Master, right or wrong, my Master"
I seek someone who understands that limits are just artificially created and imposed psychological safeguards that allows one to justify ones needs, desires and actions. One can truly do anything one chooses to do. Limits are meant to be stretched and expanded. If you are not coloring outside of the lines...always reaching...you are in a state of stagnation. Stagnation is not life. Therefore, if you stagnate, you might as well give up and die. I refuse to give up. I will not die. I will live forever.
I am not everyone's cup of tea, nor am I for the faint of heart. In my 17 years of walking this path, I have met a lot of people. Some very intelligent and knowledgeable...some completely retarded and suffering from clue deficit disorder. I have scened with many, publicly and privately. I have mentored and guided a few, considered one, collared none. I know what I seek. I would rather walk my path alone than to do a disservice to the life by settling for less.
I will correspond with anyone who approaches me with respect decency and sincerity.
(For that matter, I'll correspond with you even if you don't. I just flame back and then post the correspondence on my blog for a good laugh under the segment "Another Mental Midget". What can I say? I seem to have a lot of free time on my hands these days...)
Just because we may not be what each other is seeking, does not mean we can not be friends. I am open to all...
A "true Dom" is someone who understands that this life we lead is not simply about control. It is not about controlling another person. It is not about keeping that person chained or bound. It is not about inflicting pain on another human being, no matter how creatively one might do so. It is about binding that person to you. It is about making that person want to obey you. It is about making that person want...no, need to be bound and hurt by you...even if for no other reason that your own personal amusement and enjoyment.
I am in a long-term relationship. She is aware. In fact, she is a very skilled Domme in her own right. We have no secrets. We have no jealousies. I have my friends. She has hers. We have some friends that are mutual. While I do not seek someone to serve us both, should a suitable candidate seek that, I do not rule it out. Regardless, I require that she, and our relationship, be shown the proper degree of respect at all times, and in all situations.
I have been alternately described as intense, extreme, diabolical, dark, twisted, evil and an edge player. Aside from the givens...death and kids...my only limit is my imagination. I have not even begun to stretch the boundaries of my imagination. Nor have I found anyone with whom I could attempt to.
There is a decidely sexual bent to my play, and everything that I do within the life. I have a sense of humor, twisted as it may be. You should as well. I can make you cry in a heartbeat. To make you laugh requires true commitment. To bounce you back and forth from one to the other requires artistry.
So what does someone such as I seek in this life?
I seek someone who understand the concept of "chattel" and "property". Who understands that the words "cunt", "whore", and "slut" can be terms of endearment and praise.
I seek someone who is willing to dig deeply into the dark recesses of their psyche and pull out those slithering needs and cravings that are afraid of the light of day...the fantasies that one is afraid to give voice to...someone who will dig that deep knowing full well that I will shine light on them, fulfill them...and, yes...even put my own evil twist to them, leaving one to wonder "Did that really just happen??"
I seek someone who possesses the burning need, and the intestinal fortitude, to live by the mantra "My Master, right or wrong, my Master"
I seek someone who understands that limits are just artificially created and imposed psychological safeguards that allows one to justify ones needs, desires and actions. One can truly do anything one chooses to do. Limits are meant to be stretched and expanded. If you are not coloring outside of the lines...always reaching...you are in a state of stagnation. Stagnation is not life. Therefore, if you stagnate, you might as well give up and die. I refuse to give up. I will not die. I will live forever.
I am not everyone's cup of tea, nor am I for the faint of heart. In my 17 years of walking this path, I have met a lot of people. Some very intelligent and knowledgeable...some completely retarded and suffering from clue deficit disorder. I have scened with many, publicly and privately. I have mentored and guided a few, considered one, collared none. I know what I seek. I would rather walk my path alone than to do a disservice to the life by settling for less.
I will correspond with anyone who approaches me with respect decency and sincerity.
(For that matter, I'll correspond with you even if you don't. I just flame back and then post the correspondence on my blog for a good laugh under the segment "Another Mental Midget". What can I say? I seem to have a lot of free time on my hands these days...)
Just because we may not be what each other is seeking, does not mean we can not be friends. I am open to all...
Signo
Virgem
Aparência & Situação
Meu Tipo de Corpo:
Com Alguns Quilos Extra
Minha Altura:
1.83 m
Cor dos Olhos:
Verdes
Minha Etnia:
Caucasiana
Minha Situação Conjugal:
Relação Com Compromisso
Arte no Corpo
Tatuagem Visível
Cor de Cabelo:
Careca
Disposto/a a Mudar de Morada?
Não
Status
Nível Educacional
Diploma Universitário
Ocupação
Autoempregado/a
Especialização
Direito
Eu Fumo
Não
Eu Bebo
Não
Personalidade
No Colegial, Eu Era Um
O/A Calminho/a
Meu Comportamento Social É
Observador
À procura de
O Que Você Acha Atraente?
Inteligência, Boa Aparência, Humor, Espontaneidade, Espirituoso/a