Not Currently Seeking
issa_ray
Memphis, Tennessee | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm a goal oriented kind of girl. Right now my goal is to find a man that treats me the way I want to be treated during sex. I like dominant men. Not demeaning. Confident. Physical.
My personality is sometimes confusing. The bottom line is that I'm a submissive girl. I like being told what to do, when to do it, how to do it, etc. I love the feeling of being around somebody who is physically superior to me. I'm 5'6" and 170 lbs. I run, cycle, and lift weights regularly in addition to having a naturally curvy body, so I'm not a small or petite girl by any means.
In everyday life I don't necessarily seem like a submissive minded person. I don't exactly get to be. I study business and to be a successful business woman I have to show initiative and confidence in high levels on a daily basis. I'm also a tad on the snarky/sarcastic side. However, I think that somebody would be able to tell if he knew what to look for. There's just a side of me that can't pretend all the time. I tend to have a very soft voice and my first reaction when somebody asks me to do something is, well, to do it.
Really, I just want somebody to understand that despite the way I come off in everyday life, I want nothing more than a man who's not afraid to treat me a little more like a possession. I love being grabbed possessively. I love having my ass smacked.
My personality is sometimes confusing. The bottom line is that I'm a submissive girl. I like being told what to do, when to do it, how to do it, etc. I love the feeling of being around somebody who is physically superior to me. I'm 5'6" and 170 lbs. I run, cycle, and lift weights regularly in addition to having a naturally curvy body, so I'm not a small or petite girl by any means.
In everyday life I don't necessarily seem like a submissive minded person. I don't exactly get to be. I study business and to be a successful business woman I have to show initiative and confidence in high levels on a daily basis. I'm also a tad on the snarky/sarcastic side. However, I think that somebody would be able to tell if he knew what to look for. There's just a side of me that can't pretend all the time. I tend to have a very soft voice and my first reaction when somebody asks me to do something is, well, to do it.
Really, I just want somebody to understand that despite the way I come off in everyday life, I want nothing more than a man who's not afraid to treat me a little more like a possession. I love being grabbed possessively. I love having my ass smacked.
Sign
Capricorn
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Thick
My Height Is
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Secret Piercings, Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Student
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Cooking, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Raunchy
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Month
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
I want to be a successful business woman. I'm definitely on track to reach that goal.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Industrial, Ambient, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Biography, Business, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Science, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Anything from dancing at a club to playing Rock Band at a friend's house to cuddling on the couch reading or watching a movie.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
I look for men that have a dominant personality. To me, that means somebody who is decisive in both his professional and his personal life. To others he is the decision maker, the one looked up to because he exudes confidence. He has expectations to be met, and while people may not necessarily be fearful of him, there is an expectation that he will get what he wants. To me he would simply prefer to be in control; the lover who will use his mental (and physical) strength to dominate me. He's not afraid to lay his body over me, restrain my arms, and tell me exactly how he wants me to lie for him. He won't hesitate to tell me to give him pleasure because he knows that I enjoy the feeling as much as he does.
I do not look for somebody that has qualities I do not. When I say I want a dominant man, it is not because I myself am not dominant in other aspects of my life. I've just always had a craving to not be the one in control in my relationship.
I do not look for somebody that has qualities I do not. When I say I want a dominant man, it is not because I myself am not dominant in other aspects of my life. I've just always had a craving to not be the one in control in my relationship.