Done with boring girls
jamesmdenton
Martinez, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
I was introduced to BDSM a few years ago when my girlfriend at the time wanted to explore a bit. We found a nice big fetish list and after setting some ground rules we went through a lot of it, alphabetically. We found that we enjoyed most of it, with her subbing 90% of the time. She enjoyed intense pain and light humiliation, and I enjoyed giving both. It soon became something that was integrated into our day to day life, becoming fulltime D/s.
After breaking up over a year ago, and having two small relationships and a few flings, I've found myself missing the BDSM aspect. Although I live close to San Francisco, I haven't visited any of the BDSM clubs, mainly because I prefer to keep the BDSM descrete.
I guess I would fall under the term "Switch" although I have much more experience being Dominant. I grew accustomed to having a slave.
For those curious I have three personal rules and one general guideline.
1. Nothing permanent (Especially on me, exceptions can be made for others upon specific request) (Eg. Ex was into light scarring)
2. Nothing illegal
3. Gotta know me better to learn this one
Guideline 1. I'm not into receiving significant amounts of pain.
I'm very open to new things, or giving things I previously discounted a second try. I'm very adventurous and half the fun is figuring out what you enjoy or don't enjoy. Worse that can happen is "Wow, I don't want to do that again". Obviously the more 'intense' activies require more trust, but other than that, it's all fun.
I figured I'd sign up here and see what there is to offer, and potentially meet someone to be able to get back into the scene with.
After breaking up over a year ago, and having two small relationships and a few flings, I've found myself missing the BDSM aspect. Although I live close to San Francisco, I haven't visited any of the BDSM clubs, mainly because I prefer to keep the BDSM descrete.
I guess I would fall under the term "Switch" although I have much more experience being Dominant. I grew accustomed to having a slave.
For those curious I have three personal rules and one general guideline.
1. Nothing permanent (Especially on me, exceptions can be made for others upon specific request) (Eg. Ex was into light scarring)
2. Nothing illegal
3. Gotta know me better to learn this one
Guideline 1. I'm not into receiving significant amounts of pain.
I'm very open to new things, or giving things I previously discounted a second try. I'm very adventurous and half the fun is figuring out what you enjoy or don't enjoy. Worse that can happen is "Wow, I don't want to do that again". Obviously the more 'intense' activies require more trust, but other than that, it's all fun.
I figured I'd sign up here and see what there is to offer, and potentially meet someone to be able to get back into the scene with.
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
6' 4 (1.93 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
My Hair Is
Brown
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Driver
At Home
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Sports, Learning, Music, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Travel, Cars
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Something different
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, A Flirt
Views
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Electronic, Pop, Dance
My Idea Of Fun Is
Going out with no plan and having an adventure
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness