Looking for a strict sadist

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm a Southern belle, to one extent or another, at times, but I can also easily be one of the boys in a different mood. I'm ever-changing, the chameleon, a constant work-in-progress.
I'm a writer (primarily poetry though I've been known to write just about anything you throw my way), as well as a bibliophile.
Oooh, speaking of -philes, I'm also an erotophile. I love sex, I love experimentation, I love pushing my boundaries and limits and having them pushed. I'm also very picky about who I date, not to mention who I go to bed with. My 20s have come and gone, I'm done with any bit of promiscuity I had in me (to a reasonable extent - I'm no prude). I am also interested in D/s and BDSM, to some extent and find the pleasure I take in giving myself to someone else, in giving up control, in letting someone else take charge, one of the most erotic and romantic things I know, with the right person.
I also enjoy photography, making collages, online gaming, internet djing, discovering new music, going to concerts/shows/parties, the occasional night of bar-hopping or just chillin' at the local dive, movies, watching action sports, hanging with my friends, swimming, cooking, blogging, playing with ps, and lots of other stuff I'm sure you can find out on your own, if you're that interested :P
I'm definitely a brat. I can be fiercely independent but, at the same time, very vulnerable and often seem to be in search of approval or something akin to that. Pride? I'm not sure I know quite how to define it.
I'm also a smoker, a joker, a midnight toker; a poet; a princess; an avid profile reader; a lover of words; a starving artist; an intellectual; a dork; a loud-mouth; a rude, sarcastic, bitch; an imp; a devil's advocate; an obsessive multitasker; easily distracted; easily absorbed in things; and eager to learn and grow. I am also kind, generous, giving, caring, and loving... almost to a fault, and fiercely loyal to the people I care about.
I am secure in who I am and what I want. I want someone to help guide me through this journey called life, to provide structure and discipline, but also to encourage me in my positive endeavours, to push me to constantly grow and learn; to help me in my quest for self-improvement, to love and cherish me, to comfort me when times are tough and sing my praises when things go well -- basically a partner, a mentor, a friend, a teacher, a guide, and much much more. I want someone who will treat me with respect and cherish the gift of my heart because trust me, it is not easily given.

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 4 (1.63 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

poet/blogger/freelance editor

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

With Parent(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Often

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Boisterous, Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Loud, Observant, Outgoing, Shy, Strange

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Computers, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Tv, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Partying, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

I've Always Wanted To Try

Oh, don't you wish you knew? ;P

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Year

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

to live and love raw and fiercely. to create. to be happy as often as possible. to find my soul mate. to write the great indelible poem. to constantly learn and grow.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Dance, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Punk, Rap, Rock, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Computers, Fiction, Health, Home & Garden, Music, Mystery, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Political, Reference, Religious, Satire, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

reading, writing, blogging, Second Life, photoshop, photography (real and virtual), social media, hanging with friends, watching movies, dancing, swimming, going to shows/concerts, the occasional night of bar-hopping, good dives, going to dinner at great restaurants, the beach, and a ton of other stuffs

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Openness, understanding, kindness, a killer wit, flexibility, the ability to be silly, someone I respect, limit-pushing, intelligence, caringness, protectiveness, warmth, genuineness, slight bad boy charm, a LTR.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Domination