new_not_naive
kfaith88
Tyler, Texas | Woman Seeking A Man
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I Would Describe Myself As
Ok, so here goes nothing. I am completely new to this. No, not even new, just at the onset of curiosity. I hate to say that I may have been a bit judgmental of bdsm before I read a few hot books! When thinking of bdsm, I always pictured an episode of cheaters, where a women catches her man being beat down in a hotel room by a leather wearing, whip wielding dominatrix.
I am extremely independent. I have a life, family, and a career that I am totally happy with. I am in no way interested in any of this full time. I have to be strong all of the time, for everyone, and would like to meet a man that is dominant enough to handle me. Although be warned, not many men could. Not because I am a total bitch, but because most men are intimidated by me. So where better to find someone more dominant than I, than on a bdsm website where men proudly display their dominance. I am also not interested in being anyone's doormat, or punching bag.. I punch back. :)
I would assume that most Dom's would enjoy a challenge, but it seems that most are looking for the ease of a woman ready to submit to anyone. Just because someone calls themselves a Dom does not automatically make me want to submit. Anyone who pretends that things should happen this way lose my respect. I mean after all, I bet you wouldn't allow me to operate on you just because I told you I was a surgeon.
I am interested in finding ONE Dom, without diseases, or psychotic tendencies. With this person I would hope to be able to develop enough trust to experience the fun side of a D/s relationship. I'm on this site to meet someone who is compatible, and is interested in the things I am. I could go meet somone the normal way, wait until things progressed to sex, only to be disappointed they aren't up for experimenting. The only way to avoid that, would mean being up front from the beginning. Since 'What's your kink?' isn't exactly second dinner date conversation, I am hoping to find somone here with mutual interests that could eventually lead to a long-term monogamous relationship, with all the one-on-one kink we both can handle.
On the other hand, just because I am interested in testing the waters does not mean that with a few emails I would even consider meeting up in person. This will be a slow, well thought out process for me. If you can handle that, and are younger than my parents, please send me a message. :)
I don't, and won't have a profile pic. The pictures I have posted are not me!! lol I thought this was obvious until I received comments on them. I have had some great pic suggestions, so I will try a few of those to give people a better idea of what I look like. I do live in Texas, but not Coffee City. (I just really like coffee) Although I will tell you my name is Kennedy, it's not. I have no interest in anyone knowing of my curiosity. I will however be honest about anything other than my identity. If after getting to know you, I choose to reveal myself, then consider yourself privileged.
Only losers say winning isn't everything.- ME
A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left. - Marilyn Monroe
There is nothing better than a cup of coffee, and a great book. Well maybe the beach, a cocktail, and a great book. ME
I am extremely independent. I have a life, family, and a career that I am totally happy with. I am in no way interested in any of this full time. I have to be strong all of the time, for everyone, and would like to meet a man that is dominant enough to handle me. Although be warned, not many men could. Not because I am a total bitch, but because most men are intimidated by me. So where better to find someone more dominant than I, than on a bdsm website where men proudly display their dominance. I am also not interested in being anyone's doormat, or punching bag.. I punch back. :)
I would assume that most Dom's would enjoy a challenge, but it seems that most are looking for the ease of a woman ready to submit to anyone. Just because someone calls themselves a Dom does not automatically make me want to submit. Anyone who pretends that things should happen this way lose my respect. I mean after all, I bet you wouldn't allow me to operate on you just because I told you I was a surgeon.
I am interested in finding ONE Dom, without diseases, or psychotic tendencies. With this person I would hope to be able to develop enough trust to experience the fun side of a D/s relationship. I'm on this site to meet someone who is compatible, and is interested in the things I am. I could go meet somone the normal way, wait until things progressed to sex, only to be disappointed they aren't up for experimenting. The only way to avoid that, would mean being up front from the beginning. Since 'What's your kink?' isn't exactly second dinner date conversation, I am hoping to find somone here with mutual interests that could eventually lead to a long-term monogamous relationship, with all the one-on-one kink we both can handle.
On the other hand, just because I am interested in testing the waters does not mean that with a few emails I would even consider meeting up in person. This will be a slow, well thought out process for me. If you can handle that, and are younger than my parents, please send me a message. :)
I don't, and won't have a profile pic. The pictures I have posted are not me!! lol I thought this was obvious until I received comments on them. I have had some great pic suggestions, so I will try a few of those to give people a better idea of what I look like. I do live in Texas, but not Coffee City. (I just really like coffee) Although I will tell you my name is Kennedy, it's not. I have no interest in anyone knowing of my curiosity. I will however be honest about anything other than my identity. If after getting to know you, I choose to reveal myself, then consider yourself privileged.
Only losers say winning isn't everything.- ME
A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left. - Marilyn Monroe
There is nothing better than a cup of coffee, and a great book. Well maybe the beach, a cocktail, and a great book. ME
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