Using BDSM to better you as a person

First name

Megan

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I enjoy helping women meet their goals in life through BDSM. Are you a student who needs to study more and have a hard time with self motivation or time management? Let me help you set up a study schedule. You track your time for the week. On the weekend, or whenever it works out, we discuss how well you did. If you did well and stuck to your schedule, you will enjoy your time with me. If you didn’t, I’ll likely have more fun than you. Afterwards, we will adjust your study schedule for what you need.

Of course this is just an example. What are your goals? What would you like to improve on/in yourself?

As for me, I enjoy seeing people grow into who they want to be. Do I get pleasure out of your punishment when you fail? Yes. That’s why your goals won’t be easy. Ever. But I won’t set you up to fail. That would be counter productive to the ultimate goal of helping you become more of the person you want to be. I enjoy the list making and feeling her out. Which implement does she like the most or least? Which parts of her body are her most and least favorites to have punished? Which parts of her is she most proud of that I can use to help her better herself? I love the putting together of the punishment chart should she fail a task or goal. I love her agreeing to a bound whipping that terrifies her or a night on the town that is definitely going to make her rethink her decision to party over studying.

What part of BDSM do I enjoy most? I like seeing a woman naked and eyes down cast knowing she didn’t make her goals and scared of what she knows she has earned. I enjoy the tears as she voluntarily spreads her legs for the whip she knows is coming to her most sensitive area. I love her handing me the rope and gag I know make her feel so vulnerable she always second guesses if she REALLY wants to do this…and chooses to hand them to me anyways to bind her and punish her.

I am a fan of every part of BDSM. I enjoy watching her go against her better judgement to allow me to do what she knows will make her a better person. I love binding her while she allows it knowing she’s going to regret it but knowing she needs it in order to make sure she stays on track next time. I love the pain of the spanking and whipping, but I love watching her eyes get large when she sees the other creative punishments in store. I love watching her eyes get big and watching the thought process “no please god no,” but then deciding not to use her safe word/signal, because she knows she earned it. I love watching her in her cage afterwards with no clothes and no dignity left. Marks on her body…and on her mind. I love watching her decide she does wish to make a new set of goals knowing this is what will happen if she misses them again and deciding to do it anyways because she knows she’ll be closer to the person she wants to be in the end.

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

Heavyset

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

Body Art

Visible Tattoo

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Movies, Theater, Camping

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A meet and greet session. We discuss your goals, then go to a hotel room and test different implements on different areas of your naked body at different strengths. This is to get a baseline for your likes/dislikes and your tolerances, so we can make a punishment and rewards chart specific to your goals. I will also use different implements IN you. Again, to figure out your likes/dislikes and tolerances.

I've Always Wanted To Try

If I want to try something, I do. There isn’t anything on my to try list, at the moment, but if something comes up, I will try it with a willing partner.

My Religion Is

Not Religious

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical

When I Read, I Always Read

Classic, Fiction, Horror, Instructional, Mystery, Science

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I look for a goal oriented person willing to step outside their comfort zone.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Intimate, Committed, Other, Anal Sex, Bondage, Group Sex