Looking for pain slut in Ohio
mistresslena
Columbus, Ohio | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English, Other
I Would Describe Myself As
I am accepting tributes from male subs. I am a seductress of sorts...and love to Dominate you with that sexual air I have about myself. I have been told that I exhude sexuality.
I want someone that is sure they are a sub...and sure they want to submit...as I dont have the time for games. I am only interested in men who are serious about this, and have thought it through, including what tributes they will be willing to part with.
There are alot of men out there, that seem to think that its my duty as a Domme, to fulfill all of their fantasies.... I am looking for my enjoyment, first of all...that is the difference between a strong woman, and a Domme. I definately want to keep your enjoyment in the front of my mind, but ultimately, it will be what I take from your enjoyment list...and encorporate.
I do not enjoy verbal humiliation, and I know that alot of you subbies out there, thrive on it...so if you NEED it, I am NOT the Domme for you. I feel that its important for my subs to feel good about themselves...and to tell you that you are worthless, is not my style...not that I dont throw in "what a dirty little whore you are", on occation...lol.
I will expect whoever my sub is, to willfully submit to me, and all that I require. What I require of you, will depend alot on you. If you enjoy a bit of pain, we already see eye to eye on that...however if you are a pain freak, I would like to talk to you. I do enjoy giving my subs some pain to deal with...but I want someone that I can control in their mind...not on their carcass. The beatings(lol) are a perk!
Punishments aside, I enjoy giving a bit of flogging, and cropping, and paddling...for my pleasure. CBT is of special interest to me. Punishments however, will not be so pleasurable.
I would prefer a man that is in his late 30's to early 50's, and physically fit...so if you are older or younger than that, I wont rule you out, but we will need to talk extensively, to make sure we are a match.
I want someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, and wont be a doormat...I want my men to be men...I love that a strong, vibrant man wants to give himself to lil...well, not so little, me! lol
I have a southern belle kind of personality when it comes to service...I say it with a smile, a please, and thank you...but that DOESNT mean that you have a choice...if I tell you to do something, it BETTER GET DONE! Because, while I am soft, and gentle...southern belles are also notorious for their tempers... and I am not afraid to tell you like it is.
I will be looking forward to hearing from you
I want someone that is sure they are a sub...and sure they want to submit...as I dont have the time for games. I am only interested in men who are serious about this, and have thought it through, including what tributes they will be willing to part with.
There are alot of men out there, that seem to think that its my duty as a Domme, to fulfill all of their fantasies.... I am looking for my enjoyment, first of all...that is the difference between a strong woman, and a Domme. I definately want to keep your enjoyment in the front of my mind, but ultimately, it will be what I take from your enjoyment list...and encorporate.
I do not enjoy verbal humiliation, and I know that alot of you subbies out there, thrive on it...so if you NEED it, I am NOT the Domme for you. I feel that its important for my subs to feel good about themselves...and to tell you that you are worthless, is not my style...not that I dont throw in "what a dirty little whore you are", on occation...lol.
I will expect whoever my sub is, to willfully submit to me, and all that I require. What I require of you, will depend alot on you. If you enjoy a bit of pain, we already see eye to eye on that...however if you are a pain freak, I would like to talk to you. I do enjoy giving my subs some pain to deal with...but I want someone that I can control in their mind...not on their carcass. The beatings(lol) are a perk!
Punishments aside, I enjoy giving a bit of flogging, and cropping, and paddling...for my pleasure. CBT is of special interest to me. Punishments however, will not be so pleasurable.
I would prefer a man that is in his late 30's to early 50's, and physically fit...so if you are older or younger than that, I wont rule you out, but we will need to talk extensively, to make sure we are a match.
I want someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, and wont be a doormat...I want my men to be men...I love that a strong, vibrant man wants to give himself to lil...well, not so little, me! lol
I have a southern belle kind of personality when it comes to service...I say it with a smile, a please, and thank you...but that DOESNT mean that you have a choice...if I tell you to do something, it BETTER GET DONE! Because, while I am soft, and gentle...southern belles are also notorious for their tempers... and I am not afraid to tell you like it is.
I will be looking forward to hearing from you
Sign
Scorpio
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Committed Relationships
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Manufacturing / Distribution
My Job Title Is
quality control lab tech
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Music, Movies, Internet, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dining, Photography, Camping, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
I know this sounds lame, but a nice quiet dinner is my idea of a first date. It gives me an opportunity to sit and talk, to learn more about you...and to view your body language...sometimes, what you are saying, and what you are really thinking, are two totally different things...you know...it comes out...oh, yes, we will have to set up a second date...when in your head you are saying...OMG...is it too soon to run? roflmao...you know I am right, and we all have had those moments...I call it the aunt matilda moment...when you meet someone, and give them that first hug, and you feel like you are hugging your sweet aunt matilda, or uncle Earl...lol...and you KNOW playtime will never ever be in the cards for you...lol.
I've Always Wanted To Try
I am an adventurous girl, and there are alot of things that I would love to try, but I think the one thing that I would love to do, but wont...is have some quality play time, in an elevator...just the idea that you could be caught with the sliding of a door...mmm. lol
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
simply said...to be happy in whatever I do.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Dry / Sarcastic, Raunchy, Sadistic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Drama, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Metal, Pop, Classical, Dance, Soul, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Fiction, Horror, Mystery
My Idea Of Fun Is
It just depends on my mood...I can be happy snuggled on the couch, with a good book, and I can be found on the dance floor of a local club...I am pretty diverse, and have too many hobbies to even begin to list them here. One that I will touch on, though, because it relates to this site, is I really do enjoy CBT...nothing better...lol.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
Someone that shows compassion, strength, and isnt afraid to do what is required of them, to make a relationship work for his Domme, and himself. A true submissive is not a weak, but a strong individual...it takes alot for someone to give "all of themselves" to someone else. It is one of the most important decisions anyone can make, and it requires courage, to do so.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Domination, Bondage