Lonely in San Diego

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm a tall, attractive man, mostly new to the BDSM scene, other than a smattering of memorably visceral and satisfying sessions of experimentation and journeys of intimacy with girlfriends of times past. I'm seeking to explore my intense need for being spanked or giving spankings, as well as sharing in the incredible feelings that only complete vulnerability, trust, and power exchange can ultimately unlock.

Since I don't know exactly what to expect yet from this site and the people who confidently call it home, I'm open to new experiences shared with intriguing, honest, and caring people.

Ultimately, I'm looking for one special woman to share and grow with. If I look interesting to you, please send me a note. Take care.

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 2 (1.88 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Lips

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Finance / Trading

My Job Title Is

Self employed equity trader

I Make This Much In A Year

More Than $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Socially

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Strange

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Family, Dining, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Ideal? Fireworks and a deep, unmistakable immediate attraction/connection, of course! The little details don't matter when that happens. Am I right?

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Electronic, Classical, Jazz, Industrial, Ambient

My Idea Of Fun Is

Pretty much all the things we're on this site to explore...

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

I'll start off by saying I'm a true Switch. For me that means I thoroughly enjoy dominating TRULY submissive and D/s desirous females for personal pleasure, in addition to also loving the feeling of completely submitting to the will of a fully dominant and lifestyle oriented Domme. To be accurate, it's the D/s lifestyle I crave. There's got to be a pretty complete surrender and sequestration of power and control to really get me going. That being said, I would be absolutely fulfilled and happy in EITHER role without the need to switch to the other for, who knows, maybe FOREVER, as long as that all-important and mutually valued BDSM component is present. Soooo, in short, I'm looking for someone intrigued, interested, and passionately charged by a BDSM lifestyle. Oh yes, in addition, you must love spanking and/or other facets of domestic discipline as an integral part of the lifestyle. I surely do.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage