Novice seeks Male Dom

I Would Describe Myself As

Interested in Taken-in-Hand/Domestic Discipline: "The depth of the power yielded by the submissive is equal to the level of responsibility assumed by the Dominant." -nzbdsm

Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.

I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…

A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.

Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.

I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.

PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Academic

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Learning, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Camping, Playing Cards

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Coffee or a drink, something simple just to see if we want to see each other again.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

world peace. (Okay, that is a bit of an exaggeration, but it does give the general idea).

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Drama, Documentary

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, Health, Instructional

My Idea Of Fun Is

I am open to, and enjoy, a wide variety of activities - from camping to the opera.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Great Skills, Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Education is a must! From the list above, I am also attracted to someone with true power (as opposed to simply controlling behavior), empathy, and -to be honest- financial stability.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date