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shadowman
Nanaimo, British Columbia | Man Letar efter Kvinna
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I've always thought that describing one's self in these kinds of ads in a way that tries to stand out from others is like so many other things in life...tricky, but with a bit of thought and effort it can be done.
So with that, I decided the best way to give you a sense of who I am and what I'm about is to give you a list of ten adjectives that best describe me...
1. Trustworthy - I value other people's trust, and when I've earned it, I will never do anything to break it.
2. Understanding - I always try to see where the other is person is coming from. I want to understand as much as be understood.
3. Sincere - I always mean everything I say. It's genuine and I don't pay compliments to someone just because it might give me an advantage or because I think there's something in it for me.
4. Open-minded - I'm always open to new ideas and experiences. And if someone lives a different lifestyle than mine, I try not to be judgemental. I have a "live and let" live attitude towards others
5. Tenacious - I always keep going, despite the odds against me sometimes, to achieve something I really want
6. Sensitive - There's a time to talk, and a time to listen. And I think I'm pretty good at knowing which is which. When someone breaks down emotionally, what they need more than anything else is someone who'll listen, someone who won't judge, someone to show empathy and recognize and validate their feelings. When someone is in a state of mind like this, the last thing they need to hear are platitudes like "it's OK" or "everything's going to be alright."
7. Altruistic - I like doing random acts of kindness. And I can honestly say that I do them for no other reason than I like knowing that I've madelife just a little bit easier for someone, or brought them even a moments happiness.
These are all the positives of course. But I don't wear rose-coloured glasses and I know I have my faults just like everyone else. So with that in mind, these next two adjectives that describe me are...
8. Critical - not really of other people, but myself actually. There's a lot of truth to the old cliche that we're our own worst critics. My friends have told me I'm too hard on myself and I suppose they have a point and that I need to be more forgiving of myself. But this an area where I'm improving - and can actually see my progress!
9. Distractable - Or I guess you could say 'daydreamy'. Seriously - sometimes I get so lost in my thoughts that someone else has to bring me back from the clouds. But I'm disciplined enough to 'be there' when it really counts.
And of course last but not least...
10. Submissive - OK that last one should be pretty obvious, but my hope is that how I've described myself so far should give you a good idea as to my submissive nature and help you decide for yourself if I would make a good sub or not.
I will say this though...I know myself well enough to say I can find happiness and contentment being a sub to a dominant woman. I don't have any prior experience being someone's sub, and I know for some dommes that may be a strike against me, while others don't really care or may actually find it a plus (I hope to meet a domme who falls into the latter two camps!). I also know that strong-willed, assertive -- and sometimes even aggressive -- women give me butterflies in my stomach. And I like it when they know they make me a bit nervous...and even take delight in that fact! I promise to totally committ to a domme and understand that her needs are paramount and that we are definitely NOT equals in the relationship and that she is the one calling the shots
If you think I'd make a good sub, then I'd love to hear from you.
If not, then I wish you all the best in your search. :-)
So with that, I decided the best way to give you a sense of who I am and what I'm about is to give you a list of ten adjectives that best describe me...
1. Trustworthy - I value other people's trust, and when I've earned it, I will never do anything to break it.
2. Understanding - I always try to see where the other is person is coming from. I want to understand as much as be understood.
3. Sincere - I always mean everything I say. It's genuine and I don't pay compliments to someone just because it might give me an advantage or because I think there's something in it for me.
4. Open-minded - I'm always open to new ideas and experiences. And if someone lives a different lifestyle than mine, I try not to be judgemental. I have a "live and let" live attitude towards others
5. Tenacious - I always keep going, despite the odds against me sometimes, to achieve something I really want
6. Sensitive - There's a time to talk, and a time to listen. And I think I'm pretty good at knowing which is which. When someone breaks down emotionally, what they need more than anything else is someone who'll listen, someone who won't judge, someone to show empathy and recognize and validate their feelings. When someone is in a state of mind like this, the last thing they need to hear are platitudes like "it's OK" or "everything's going to be alright."
7. Altruistic - I like doing random acts of kindness. And I can honestly say that I do them for no other reason than I like knowing that I've madelife just a little bit easier for someone, or brought them even a moments happiness.
These are all the positives of course. But I don't wear rose-coloured glasses and I know I have my faults just like everyone else. So with that in mind, these next two adjectives that describe me are...
8. Critical - not really of other people, but myself actually. There's a lot of truth to the old cliche that we're our own worst critics. My friends have told me I'm too hard on myself and I suppose they have a point and that I need to be more forgiving of myself. But this an area where I'm improving - and can actually see my progress!
9. Distractable - Or I guess you could say 'daydreamy'. Seriously - sometimes I get so lost in my thoughts that someone else has to bring me back from the clouds. But I'm disciplined enough to 'be there' when it really counts.
And of course last but not least...
10. Submissive - OK that last one should be pretty obvious, but my hope is that how I've described myself so far should give you a good idea as to my submissive nature and help you decide for yourself if I would make a good sub or not.
I will say this though...I know myself well enough to say I can find happiness and contentment being a sub to a dominant woman. I don't have any prior experience being someone's sub, and I know for some dommes that may be a strike against me, while others don't really care or may actually find it a plus (I hope to meet a domme who falls into the latter two camps!). I also know that strong-willed, assertive -- and sometimes even aggressive -- women give me butterflies in my stomach. And I like it when they know they make me a bit nervous...and even take delight in that fact! I promise to totally committ to a domme and understand that her needs are paramount and that we are definitely NOT equals in the relationship and that she is the one calling the shots
If you think I'd make a good sub, then I'd love to hear from you.
If not, then I wish you all the best in your search. :-)
Stjärntecken
Vattumannen
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Medelmåttig
Min längd är
177 cm
Mina ögon är
Gråa
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Aldrig varit gift
Jag har barn
Nej
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Min bästa kroppsdel är
Hår
Mitt hår är
Mörkblont
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Inga husdjur
Villig att flytta
Ja
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Vissa universitetsstudier
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Deltid
Min specialitet är
Annat
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Vänner hälsar på då och då
Jag är rökare
Nej
Jag dricker
Nej
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Den tysta
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Reserverad, Vänlig
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Konst & Hantverk, Läsa, Filmer, Internet, Middag, Fotografering, Teater, Resor, Matlagning, Campa, Volontärarbete
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Umgås med vänner, Gå ut och shoppa, Prova nya saker, Bio, Tar det lugnt, Läsa en bok, Leka maskerad, Gå på konsert, Gå på museum
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Vänlig
Åsikter
Min religion är
Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Min humor är
Klok, Obskyr
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Drama, Filmer, Dokusåpor
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Action, Science Fiction, Komedier, Drama, Tecknat, Skräck, Thriller
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Dammsugarljud
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Fantasy, Hälsa, Skräck, Humor, Politisk, Referens, Poesi, Satir
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Intelligens, Känslighet, Djärvhet, Makt, Flirtighet, Kvickhet, Omtänksamhet
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Dominans