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sj420guy
San Jose, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English, Binary, Other
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm a 45+ single white male traveler who just moved to the south bay area. I like to go to hiking, or camping in the mountains, I also enjoy going our for a meal, or to the movies, but I've been known to just sit around at home and watch TV or a movie; it's common for me to go for a walk listening to music on the farm where I live, and just enjoy nature.
I am 5-10/175, recently single and am looking for new friends.
Over the past 20 years, I've been turned on by the idea of a BDSM life, and have at times played some in the past, but now am looking for a relationship that starts with 2 people anchored with BDSM in common.
Some would call me a control freak, I would just say, I like what I like, and in my world I am the captian, or maybe it's because I grow up when I was told I could "have it your way", and that how I like it, my way - not that I am not open to new ideas.
I find myself attracted to younger white women, 20s, and 30s, but am open to others.
I am D&D free (and expect the same), 420 friendly, and I respect safewords.
I am 5-10/175, recently single and am looking for new friends.
Over the past 20 years, I've been turned on by the idea of a BDSM life, and have at times played some in the past, but now am looking for a relationship that starts with 2 people anchored with BDSM in common.
Some would call me a control freak, I would just say, I like what I like, and in my world I am the captian, or maybe it's because I grow up when I was told I could "have it your way", and that how I like it, my way - not that I am not open to new ideas.
I find myself attracted to younger white women, 20s, and 30s, but am open to others.
I am D&D free (and expect the same), 420 friendly, and I respect safewords.
Sign
Capricorn
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Slim
My Height Is
5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Never Married
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Other
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is
General Manager
I Make This Much In A Year
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home
There Is No Noise
I'm A Smoker
Yes - But Non Tobacco
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is
Shy, Anti-social, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Travel, Camping, Playing Cards, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
A good time ;) Dinner and a Movie, or maybe a walk along the beach, we could go to a museum or drive somewhere in the mountains, or maybe we just to window shopping and you tell me all the things you want to buy - Who are you, and what do you like?
An Ideal First Date would be a date where two people found something that lead to additional dates, something that is comfortable for both parties.
And I think that is really the point, finding a safe and comfortable way of conducting an interview, who am I? and what are you?
As such, an ideal first date is a successful interview in which both parties have learned something to help move towards additional dates.
An Ideal First Date would be a date where two people found something that lead to additional dates, something that is comfortable for both parties.
And I think that is really the point, finding a safe and comfortable way of conducting an interview, who am I? and what are you?
As such, an ideal first date is a successful interview in which both parties have learned something to help move towards additional dates.
I've Always Wanted To Try
There are so many things, I am unable to answer. I am willing to try new things, but putting it in to words seems harder then it should be.
I've always wanted to try ... [?]
I've always wanted to try ... [?]
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, A Troll, Cool, I Don't Have Any Friends
Views
My Religion Is
Other
I Attend Services
On Holidays
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To try and explore new things and Enjoy life to the fullest.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, I Wish I Had A Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Pop, Jazz
When I Read, I Always Read
I Don't Like Reading
My Idea Of Fun Is
Hiking, Camping, Traveling, Relaxing, Living, and Enjoying Life.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
A good time.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Secretive Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Vacation Fuck, Date, Just Wanna Fuck