Looking for my Muse

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

been into BDSM D/s since 1996. I am 5 11 Avg Build blue eyes, glasses and light brown hair. I have a very caring and giving personality. I am a passionate man that enjoys romance as well as the BDSM realm. I consider myself to be a true gentleman and pride myself on my manners. However, I do have a very dark side as well. I am very open minded and enjoy exploring new experiences.

I am still on a journey of self discovery, expanding my knowledge of this lifestyle, in hopes of finding a compatible partner for Myself

Anyway... I'm very spontaneous. I like exploring new things and the more I see the more I want to see.. Besides all the craziness that I have going on I am a nice guy, funny, and entertaining to be around, at least that's what my friends tell me. So don't feel intimidated, write back!! I'm hard working I believe that I'm a person you can trust to become very good friends with. I love to talk and chat about life and problems. I give very good advice on difficult topics. I think that with my personality, you will have a friend to talk to for a lifetime.

I still believe in trying a toy before I use it, I do like protocol every now and then and I believe a title is earned along with trust and respect, not given or demanded.

I have found the importance in the mentality of this lifestyle and the various forms it takes. I have realized that dominance is founded in the mind's acceptance and want, and that submission cannot occur without its ability to be open. I am a kind man, a man who smiles, but a smile that doesn’t express the thoughts my mind carries. My mind is a cavern of imagination and dark needs, of which this life has allowed me to explore, and still desires to uncover. I have found that my attributes or rather integration of thought and need, define me most as a Master. I enjoy the company of a woman, her presence, and the conversation that comes from interaction. I believe in the strength of words and respect, yet thrill in the lust of watching a woman lose control, giving herself, the satisfaction of her aching for more, the contradiction of pain and pleasure. I delight in a woman’s beauty, and the features that define it, but don’t be misled in believing that there isn’t the knowledge of putting her in her place. I don't play games as many may think or assume by such words. One cannot explore this life without opening something of themselves, but it is also mutually taken and given. I am a soft man with an obscene mind. I am not only seeking fulfillment, but the discovery and exploration of her submission, in all its forms. The mind is what allows your body to feel, it is the beginning of the ends you think of. I am simply the man who smiles, in knowing that it exists, and my desire to take it.

I'm looking to find partners that enjoy rope bondage, gags, blindfolds, rough play and of so much more.... To me this is a lifestyle choice, not just bedroom fun. I seek someone for a long term relationship. She should be 18 - 45, real, one more time - REAL, and more then a little interested in exploring all this life and life style have to offer. Experience is not required. However, honesty, sincerity and a willingness to please and serve are.

What a Great Doms should be: One that protects a sub from herself but allows her the things she needs and craves without getting hurt. Think about it....its very simple!!!
I am funny (so I am told), out going, adventurous, serious at times, caring, sensitive, honest, full of integrity. I have a huge heart, I am a hard worker, strong, dependable. I love to laugh and have a good time. I will bend over backwards for friends and family to help in any way that I can

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Sales / Marketing

My Job Title Is

Manager

I Make This Much In A Year

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Flirtatious, Dark

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Family, Dining, Photography

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Not Sure

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Dramas, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Family, Animation

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical, Jazz, Industrial, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, History, Mystery

My Idea Of Fun Is

I love to write, take photos mainly of wildlife and nature, I have done some head shots and portfolios, but that is more of a hobby than a career. Even though my some may disagree, its just a hobby anymore. I do it for fun, nothing more... In 2000, I took a class in photography. I started with the classic wildlife and nature shots; I had no idea that a classic-style figure nude I took of my girlfriend was going to have such an impact on me. I was thrilled with the results, but when the class ended, so did my figure photography... at least until now. Now living in Cincinnati, I have met several extremely extroverted women and quickly found several opportunities to photograph them. As I kept shooting, I explored new styles like pin-ups, glamour, fetish and erotica. All the styles shared a common theme of sensuality. Relationships are crucial to making photos that stand out. I believe the key to making provocative, sensual images is having good rapport with expressive, alluring women. Tha

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Sense of humor is a must life can be really stressful at times and we all need a laugh here and there. I'm adventurous and I would like to meet someone who isn't afraid to explore and willing to try new things. A devoted attitude, someone who knows what she wants in life and will stop at nothing to achieve her goals. A little bit of a party animal not to crazy but someone who lets their hair down once in a while. I love the finer things in life, but more into the fundamental things. So if this sounds like you and you love to laugh drop me a line She needs to have a brain and be able to use it. I want to meet someone whose conversation is not centered in the latest thing she bought but the latest thing she actually did. I hope this is not too much to ask.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Domination, Bondage, Date