Firm but fair

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

You are important to me is where I start from. You will be treated with respect if you are honest, reliable and dedicated. I will dominate you in play, but you only submit because you want to, and must still to want to submit after you have played. You will be cared for in play and after it, and not stressed in your vanilla life with unreasonable demands. I will learn all about you, your likes and dislikes, fetishes and fantasies, limits and taboos. You will learn of mine. If they overlap sufficiently then you may be a play partner for me, and I for you. We should both gain satisfaction and fulfilment from or complimentary roles through sharing the activities. A Dom is gifted with a woman’s submission and with it comes responsibilities I take very seriously. If this resonates with you, read on….

Professionally, I’ve had to be very mobile recently and have taken a fee holiday so currently only have standard membership. I’ve met some good partners on this site and will continue to use it. If you like my profile then send me a flirt and I’ll send one back if I like yours too. If you are bored and like a puzzle, see if you can work out where I am from where I’ve been. I like women who can use their brains. If you are not bored you probably don’t need to talk to me, lol. In the last year I’ve been to Andover, Bracknell, Epsom, London, Portsmouth, Luton, Abingdon, Yarmouth, Eastleigh, Ramsgate, Alton, Tunbridge, Orpington, Uckfield, Tamworth, Lichfield, Oxford x2, Kidderminster, Dudley, Oldham, Todmorden, Chesterfield, Ossett and Manchester. I get around!

If you are new, then the first thing you get is some advice. It’s free, with no obligations and will probably save you an unpleasant experience. What are you waiting for? I’m only a puzzle away.

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

European

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Legs

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Consultant

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Dark, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Computers, Cooking, Dining, Family, Internet, Gardening, Learning, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater, Travel, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Drinking, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

It’s got to be tea and buns first; a frank chat about what we can give each other. That builds on what has passed between us in earlier communications. If that can be done in pleasant surroundings with food and nice wine, so much the better. If that doesn’t work then it’s probably not going any further.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Talk to me personally about it.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Obscure, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Year

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

Fulfilment of all my dreams and fantasies

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Country, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Rock, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Computers, History, Home & Garden, Instructional, Mathematics, Nature, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Political, Reference, Satire, Science, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Sending a sub into subspace and bringing her safely back. It gives me a buzz and that is addictive and irresistible. And if you don't get a buzz at the same time that is a waste of the power you give up to me. It can only be fun for both even if it is in very different ways.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Great Skills, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Spontaneity, Wit

What Do You Look For?

It does not matter what level of experience you have, it is commitment and reliability that count most. If what you want is to try BDSM for the first time that’s fine with me. There is no harm in trying and then being honest and saying it’s not for you. I will not try to turn a vanilla woman into a sub if she has not got it in her to play that role. But you won’t know unless you try. If you rate yourself as more experienced then talk to me. As the picture caption says, there is more to BDSM than some handcuffs, a collar, a cane and a blindfold. Play appropriate to your experience is what you will get.

You must have a clean bill of health. Non-smokers preferred but a light smoker or trying to give up is ok. Just be honest, want to take part and turn up at the agreed time, no time wasters will be given a second chance.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed, Other, Doesnt Matter, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Strap On Sex, Secretive Sex