He who seeks to Serve...Read On
sthrncom4t
Fort Collins, Colorado | Femme Cherchant Homme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
Experienced Poly Female Top seeking a submissive or curious man who sincerely wishes to serve. Polite and respectful inquiries welcome. Prefer local to Fort Collins/Denver area.. Open-mindedness required. You should be a NON-smoker. This is not negotiable!
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
Signe
Cancer
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Avec des formes
Ma taille est
5' 5 (1.65 m)
Mes yeux sont
Verts
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Séparé/e
J'ai des enfants
Non
Je veux des enfants
Pas sûr/e
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Yeux
Art Corporel
Tatouages stratégiquement placés
Mes cheveux sont
Auburns/Roux
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chien
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme universitaire
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Plein-temps
Mon domaine de compétence est
Médical / Santé
J'ai gagné cette année
De 75,000 € à 99,999 €
Je vis
Avec des animaux
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - socialement
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Tête
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Observateur, Sympa, Séducteur
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Faire de l'exercice, Apprendre, Musique, Internet, Dîner , Religion/Spiritualité, Voyages, Jardinage, Camper, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Me relaxer, Aller à un concert
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Sushi dinner and talking for 3 days, followed by setting a date in the near future to explore more intimate mutual desires.
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Cool, Un amour
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Je vais à la messe
Jamais
Mon but dans la vie c'est
Be the best me I can be, and treat others as well as I'd like to be treated, OR BETTER.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Sadique
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Je n'aime pas la télévision
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Drames
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Folk
Mon idée du fun
Spending quality time with My partner
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Délicatesse
Que recherchez-vous?
Apparently I need to now pay to read an email???
Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.
Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.