He who seeks to Serve...Read On
sthrncom4t
Fort Collins, Colorado | Kobieta Szukam Mężczyzna
Podstawowe Informacje
Znam Następujące Języki Obce
angielski
Widzę siebie jako osobę
Experienced Poly Female Top seeking a submissive or curious man who sincerely wishes to serve. Polite and respectful inquiries welcome. Prefer local to Fort Collins/Denver area.. Open-mindedness required. You should be a NON-smoker. This is not negotiable!
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
Znak
Rak
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Zaokrąglony
Mój wzrost
5' 5 (165 cm)
Moje Oczy Są
Zielony
Moje pochodzenie
kaukaskie
Mój Stan Cywilny to
W Separacji
Mam Dzieci
Nie
Chcę Mieć Dzieci
Nie Jestem Pewien
Moje Najlepsze Zalety To
Oczy
Budowa Ciała
Strategicznie Umieszczone Tatuaże
Moje Włosy Są
Rudy/Czerwony
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Pies
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Nie
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Licencjackich
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Pełen Etat
Moja Specjalność To
Medycyna/Zdrowie
Tyle Zarabiam Rocznie
od $75,000USD do $99,999USD
Mieszkam
Ze Zwierzętami
W Domu
Wszystko Jest w Porządku
Jestem Palaczem
Nie
Piję Alkohol
Tak - Towarzysko
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Kujon
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Obserwujący, Przyjacielski, Flirciarz
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Ćwiczenia, Uczenie Się, Muzyka, Internet, Posiłki, Religia/Duchowość, Podróże, Uprawianie Ogrodu, Kamping, Komputery
Mój Pomysł Na Dobrze Spędzony Czas To
Spędzanie Czasu z Przyjaciółmi, Przebywanie w Domu, Relaks, Pójście Na Koncert
Idealna Pierwsza Randka To
Sushi dinner and talking for 3 days, followed by setting a date in the near future to explore more intimate mutual desires.
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Przyjacielski, Wyluzowany, Flirt
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
Duchowy, Ale Nie Religijny
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Nigdy
Mój Cel Życiowy To
Be the best me I can be, and treat others as well as I'd like to be treated, OR BETTER.
Mój Rodzaj Humoru To
Mądry, Oschły/Sarkastyczny, Przyjacielski, Sadystyczny
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Nie Lubię Oglądać Telewizji
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Dramatyczne
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Folklorystyczna
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
Spending quality time with My partner
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Troskliwość
Czego Szukasz?
Apparently I need to now pay to read an email???
Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.
Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.