He who seeks to Serve...Read On
sthrncom4t
Fort Collins, Colorado | Kvinde Søger en Mand
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Experienced Poly Female Top seeking a submissive or curious man who sincerely wishes to serve. Polite and respectful inquiries welcome. Prefer local to Fort Collins/Denver area.. Open-mindedness required. You should be a NON-smoker. This is not negotiable!
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
Underskriv
Kræft
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Kurvet
Min højde er
165 cm
Mine øjne er
Grøn
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Separeret
Jeg har børn
Nej
Jeg vil have børn
Ikke sikker
Mit bedste karaktertræk er
Øjne
Kropsudsmykning
Stategisk placeret tatovering
Mit hår er
Rødbrun / rød
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Hund
Villig til at flytte
Nej
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Universitetsuddannet
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Fuldtid
Mit speciale er
Medicin / sundhed
Jeg tjener så meget på et år
Fra $75.000USD til $99.999USD
Jeg bor
Med kæledyr
Hjemme
Alt er roligt
Jeg er ryger
Nej
Jeg drikker
Ja - til fester
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Hjerne
Min sociale opførsel er
Observerende, Venlig, Flirtende
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Motion, Læring, Musik, Internet, Spise til middag, Religion / Spiritualitet, Rejser, Havearbejde, Camping, Computer
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Være hjemme, Afslappende, Tage til koncert
En ideel første date ville være
Sushi dinner and talking for 3 days, followed by setting a date in the near future to explore more intimate mutual desires.
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig, Cool, En flirt
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Spirituel, men ikke religiøs
Jeg deltager i tjenester
Aldrig
Mit mål i livet er
Be the best me I can be, and treat others as well as I'd like to be treated, OR BETTER.
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Sadistisk
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Jeg bryder mig ikke om tv
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Drama
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Folk
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er
Spending quality time with My partner
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
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Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.
Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.