He who seeks to Serve...Read On
sthrncom4t
Fort Collins, Colorado | Frau Suche eine/n Mann
Basis Information
Ich kann sprechen
Englisch
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
Experienced Poly Female Top seeking a submissive or curious man who sincerely wishes to serve. Polite and respectful inquiries welcome. Prefer local to Fort Collins/Denver area.. Open-mindedness required. You should be a NON-smoker. This is not negotiable!
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
About Me ?I discovered the BDSM lifestyle about 11 years ago. I am technically married, but emotionally single. We no longer live together and it?s just a matter of sorting out the finances and filing the paperwork. We are amicable, and although he knows, he does not share my lifestyle interests. I was originally attracted to BDSM as a submissive, but over time and emotionally-complex life lessons, have come to embrace my Sadistic Dominant nature. I understand your strong desire to be pleasing and inspire happiness in Another through service and suffering. Your willingness to obey and offer yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is a HUGE sexual turn-on for me, when we combine that with mutual admiration and respect.
To me polyamory is about letting a relationship develop naturally and to its fullest potential. "Relationship for me implies personal, emotional and spiritual intimacy as well as the physical." I do not consider myself a 'swinger' because it?s rare (if ever) that my sexual desires are the influential aspect of my decision-making process.
I am always seeking self-improvement and insight. I get along best with others of similar character. Seeing the benefits of Ruiz's 4 Agreements, I try to A) be impeccable with my word, B) not take things personally, C) not assume, and D) always do my best. Knowledge is power, and security is having faith (in yourself); that you can be flexible and handle whatever life tosses your way. I am a firm believer of personal choice, responsibility and accountability. We are where we are, by our own choices.
I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and am very 'hands-on'. "Touch" is my primary language. I take the responsibility for my submissives? health and well-being (physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually) as a serious commitment. That doesn?t mean I?m a mind reader, nor does it relieve you of your similar responsibility to me. We are Yin and Yang; opposite sides of the same coin. We embrace, support and enhance each other?s experiences.
I?m a skilled communicator. I recognize the necessity of being proactively open and honest. (even when the situation is uncomfortable and difficult). I also recognize the responsibility of being a good listener. After all, it?s hard for someone to communicate with you, if you aren?t receptive, or respond with blame and accusations. I?m very emotionally grounded and able to maintain open dialogue under the most stressful of situations. This was a skill acquired by completing a tumultuous ?trial by fire?. Ultimately it was one of the most liberating experiences of my life. I seek soul connections with those on a similar path.
Submission is not a passive activity; your realization of the desire to please Me will be a delightful awakening. I understand that respect is earned, but I do not waste my time engaging in power struggles. I will not "over power you", but Revel in your voluntary submission. Your ability to 'suffer beautifully' for Me, is an active talent which I truly appreciate. Your first priority when we are together should be mindfulness of my pleasure. This does not mean you don't have your own opinions. Together we will create our own, unique experience.
Sometimes I like to Drive, sometimes I like to be chauffeured...you should be capable of pleasing Me (or at least make a valiant attempt) without being micromanaged every second. Your creative service will be rewarded!
From a physical perspective I have dangerous curves. I am not a BBW; but in no way resemble a stick. Think Marilyn Monroe.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Kurvig
Meine Größe ist
5' 5 (1.65 m)
Meine Augen sind
Grün
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Getrennt
Ich habe Kinder
Nein
Ich möchte Kinder
Nicht sicher
Meine beste Eigenschaft ist
Augen
Körperkunst
Strategisch platzierte Tattoos
Mein Haar ist
Rötlich braun / Rot
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Hund
Bereit umzuziehen
Nein
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Hochschul-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Vollzeit
Meine Spezialität ist
Medizin / Gesundheit
Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel
$75,000USD bis $99,999USD
Ich lebe
Mit Haustier(en)
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Nein
Ich trinke
Ja - Sozial
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Streber
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Aufmerksam, Freundlich, Flirtwillig
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Trainieren, Lernen, Musik, Internet, Essen gehen, Religion/Spiritualität, Reisen, Gartenarbeit, Camping, Computer
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Daheim bleiben, Entspannen, In ein Konzert gehen
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Sushi dinner and talking for 3 days, followed by setting a date in the near future to explore more intimate mutual desires.
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich, Cool, Ein Flirt
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Spirituell aber nicht religiös
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Nie
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
Be the best me I can be, and treat others as well as I'd like to be treated, OR BETTER.
Mein Art Humor ist
Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Sadistisch
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Ich habe keinen Fernseher
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Drama
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Folk
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Spending quality time with My partner
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
Hanging with Good Friends
Working on the DOI (ask
Good Sushi dinner
Coming up with a new Martini recipe
Massage
Teaching you about yourself
Learning about myself
Naked Hiking (list of things to do this summer)
DragonFest
You on a St Andrew's Cross (bonus points if you know what this is)
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Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.
Emotional Intelligence or willingness to explore. Open-mindedness or curiosity of alternative lifestyles. Interest in expanding personal limits, with a comfortable degree of spontaneity, while balancing responsibility.