Novice seeks Male Dom
secretjade
Middletown, Connecticut | Frau Suche eine/n Mann
Basis Information
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
Interested in Taken-in-Hand/Domestic Discipline: "The depth of the power yielded by the submissive is equal to the level of responsibility assumed by the Dominant." -nzbdsm
Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.
I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…
A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.
Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.
I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.
PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.
Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.
I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…
A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.
Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.
I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.
PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Durchschnittlich
Meine Größe ist
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Meine Augen sind
Braun
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Geschieden
Ich habe Kinder
Nein
Körperkunst
Gepierct... Aber nur die Ohren, Strategisch platzierte Tattoos
Mein Haar ist
Braun
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Hund
Bereit umzuziehen
Nein
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Universitäts-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Vollzeit
Meine Spezialität ist
Ausbildung / Akademiker
Mein Job-Titel ist
Academic
Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel
$45,000USD bis $59,999USD
Ich lebe
Mit Mitbewohner(n), Mit Haustier(en)
Zuhause
Freunde kommen gelegentlich vorbei
Ich trinke
Ja - Sozial
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Außenseiter
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Reserviert, Schüchtern, Aufmerksam, Freundlich, Flirtwillig, Offen
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Lesen, Lernen, Familie, Essen gehen, Theater, Reisen, Camping, Karten spielen
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Daheim bleiben, Versuche neue Dinge, Entspannen, Schlafen, Ein Buch lesen, Sich aufstylen, In ein Museum gehen
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Coffee or a drink, something simple just to see if we want to see each other again.
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich
Ansichten
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
world peace. (Okay, that is a bit of an exaggeration, but it does give the general idea).
Mein Art Humor ist
Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Albern
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Dokumentationen, Dramen, Situations-Komödien, Filme, Ich habe keinen Fernseher
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Comedy, Drama, Dokumentation
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Auto-Biografie, Biografie, Fiction, Gesundheit, Anleitungen
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
I am open to, and enjoy, a wide variety of activities - from camping to the opera.
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Intelligenz, Gutes Aussehen, Tolle Fähigkeiten, Kühnheit, Flirtwillig, Nachdenklich
Wonach suchst du?
Education is a must! From the list above, I am also attracted to someone with true power (as opposed to simply controlling behavior), empathy, and -to be honest- financial stability.
Nach welcher Art Beziehung suchst du?
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