Novice seeks Male Dom
secretjade
Middletown, Connecticut | Mulher Procurando um Homem
Informação Básica
Me Descreveria Como
Interested in Taken-in-Hand/Domestic Discipline: "The depth of the power yielded by the submissive is equal to the level of responsibility assumed by the Dominant." -nzbdsm
Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.
I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…
A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.
Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.
I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.
PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.
Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.
I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…
A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.
Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.
I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.
PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.
Signo
Leão
Aparência & Situação
Meu Tipo de Corpo:
Mediano
Minha Altura:
1.7 m
Cor dos Olhos:
Marrons
Minha Etnia:
Caucasiana
Minha Situação Conjugal:
Divorciado
Com Filhos?
Não
Arte no Corpo
Com piercing... mas somente na(s) orelha (s), Tatuagem Estrategicamente Localizada
Cor de Cabelo:
Marrons
Animais Que Possuo:
Cachorro
Disposto/a a Mudar de Morada?
Não
Status
Nível Educacional
Diploma Universitário
Ocupação
Tempo Integral
Especialização
Educação / Acadêmica
Meu Título de Trabalho É
Academic
Eu Faço Isto Em Um Ano
$45,000USD A $59,999USD
Eu Moro
Com Colega(s) de Quarto, Com Bicho(s) de Estimação
Em Casa
Amigos Vêm Ocasionalmente
Eu Bebo
Sim - Socialmente
Personalidade
No Colegial, Eu Era Um
Marginal
Meu Comportamento Social É
Reservado, Tímido, Observador, Amigável, Flertador(a)/Engatatão; Engatatona, Extrovertido/a
Meus Interesses e Atividades São
Ler, Aprender, Família, Jantar, Teatro, Viajar, Acampar, Jogar Cartas
Minha Ideia De Um Momento Ideal É
Sair Com Os Amigos, Ficar Em Casa, Experimentar Novas Coisas, Relaxar, Dormi, Ler Um Livro, Jogos de vestir, Ir A Um Museu
Um Primeiro Encontro Ideal Seria
Coffee or a drink, something simple just to see if we want to see each other again.
Meus Amigos Me Descrevem Como Sendo
Amigável
Vistas
Meu Objetivo na Vida É
world peace. (Okay, that is a bit of an exaggeration, but it does give the general idea).
Meu Tipo de Humor É
Seco / Sarcástico, Amigável, Pateta
Gosto
Na TV, Eu Sempre Assisto
Documentários, Dramas, Seriados, Filmes, Não Tenho Uma TV
Quando Eu Vou Ao Cinema, Eu Sempre Vou Para Ver Um
Ação, Comédia, Drama, Documentário
Quando Eu Leio, Eu Sempre Leio
Autobiografia, Biografia, Ficção, Saúde, Educativo
Para mim, Diversão É
I am open to, and enjoy, a wide variety of activities - from camping to the opera.
À procura de
O Que Você Acha Atraente?
Inteligência, Boa Aparência, Grandes Habilidades, Ousadia, Marotice, Consideração Pelos Outros
O Que Você Procura?
Education is a must! From the list above, I am also attracted to someone with true power (as opposed to simply controlling behavior), empathy, and -to be honest- financial stability.
Que Tipo de Relacionamento Você Procura?
Encontro