Novice seeks Male Dom
secretjade
Middletown, Connecticut | Vrouw Op zoek naar een Man
Algemene Informatie
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
Interested in Taken-in-Hand/Domestic Discipline: "The depth of the power yielded by the submissive is equal to the level of responsibility assumed by the Dominant." -nzbdsm
Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.
I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…
A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.
Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.
I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.
PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.
Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.
I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…
A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.
Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.
I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.
PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.
Sterrenbeeld
Leeuw
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Gemiddeld
Mijn Lengte Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Bruin
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Gescheiden
Ik Heb Kinderen
Nee
Body Art
Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren, Strategisch geplaatste tatoeages
Mijn Haar Is
Bruin
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Hond
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Nee
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
Bachelor
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Voltijd
Mijn specialisatie is
Bouw / Ambacht
Mijn functie is:
Academic
Mijn jaarsalaris is:
Tussen de €45.000 en €60.000
Ik Woon
Met Huisgeno(o)ten, Met Huisdier(en)
Bij mij thuis
Komen er soms vrienden langs
Ik Drink
Ja - Als ik uitga
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Buitenstaander
In sociale situaties ben ik
Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Flirterig, Gezellig
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Gezin, Eten, Theater, Reizen, Kamperen, Kaarten spelen
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Relaxen, Slapen, Een boek lezen, Me verkleden, Naar een museum gaan
Een perfecte eerste date is
Coffee or a drink, something simple just to see if we want to see each other again.
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk
Meningen
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
world peace. (Okay, that is a bit of an exaggeration, but it does give the general idea).
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Documentaires, Drama's, Komedies, Films, Ik hou niet van tv
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Komedie, Drama, Documentair
Ik lees graag
Autobiografie, Biografie, Fictie, Gezondheid, Educatief
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
I am open to, and enjoy, a wide variety of activities - from camping to the opera.
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Moed, Flirterig, Bedachtzaamheid
Wat zoek je?
Education is a must! From the list above, I am also attracted to someone with true power (as opposed to simply controlling behavior), empathy, and -to be honest- financial stability.
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Date