I respect the duty of taking charge
AspieDom
Moorpark, California | Homem Procurando um Mulher
Informação Básica
Primeiro Nome
Sean
Eu Sei Falar
Inglês
Me Descreveria Como
# To save some of you the trouble, be aware I use this protocol
- I don't give money to strangers
- I don't give things convertible to money to strangers
- If I have not met you in person, you are a stranger
# Dominance and submission
Submission unearned is not submission worth having. I don’t view Dominance/submission as me putting someone else into my box, I view it as us building a box together based on what we each desire, deciding if we both like the box, and if so, continually exploring and adjusting the box as we learn more about each other. It is also nice to have some common vanilla interests as well.
# Kinky Interests
Dominance/submission, Bondage, Collars, Pet Play, Light Sensation Play, Heavy Sensation Play.
# Vanilla Interests
Critical Thinking, Moral Philosophy, Political Philosophy, Software Engineering (career, teaching, front-end, back-end, cloud computing), Anime, Tabletop Board Games (cooperative, strategy, euro), Video Games (cooperative, turn based strategy, real time strategy, Streets of Rogue, Factorio), Movies (Dystopian Science Fiction, Dark Fantasy, Dark Humor, Offbeat, Qunitin Tarantino)
# Compatible?
Are we compatible enough to explore spending time together? Imagine yourself, naked, collared, on your knees, with your head in my lap as I gently pet you. I am dressed, but have removed my belt so that it won’t touch your head. Your hands are chained behind your back, leather cuffs, not handcuffs, and a chain giving enough slack so that there is no strain on your arms. Your knees rest on a thick exercise mat, and memory foam pillows. We have taken our time in previous conversations to establish that I am in charge of handling the details, so all there is for you to do is remain as you are while I am petting your back and playing with your hair. If this sounds liberating rather than restraining, or restraining but in an exciting way, then we probably have enough compatibility to warrant a conversation.
# Values
- Objective Truth
- Individual Freedom
- Procedural Justice
# Disciplines
- Critical Thinking
- Software Engineering
# Conditions (not fixable)
- Asperger’s Syndrome
- Aphantasia
- Prosopagnosia
# Disorders (making progress)
- CPTSD (trauma from child consented mistreatment and neglect)
- Hypervigilance
- Alexithymia
# More details
I have a form of Autism known as Asperger’s Syndrome, which has advantages and disadvantages. Some advantages are an immense ability to focus, attention to detail, and ability to create clear and easy to follow protocols in a D/s relationship. One disadvantage is “social norm blindness” which makes it impossible for me to fit in with any social group, and unable to keep up with the constant, unstated changes of a “relationship escalator” without someone willing to give me feedback.
# My baseline standard
Keep in mind that I am a dominant, not a babysitter, so I will invest more of my time with people who are already self-sufficient enough to handle grown up things like their own finances, verbal communication over a phone, meeting somewhere in person, et cetera.
- I don't give money to strangers
- I don't give things convertible to money to strangers
- If I have not met you in person, you are a stranger
# Dominance and submission
Submission unearned is not submission worth having. I don’t view Dominance/submission as me putting someone else into my box, I view it as us building a box together based on what we each desire, deciding if we both like the box, and if so, continually exploring and adjusting the box as we learn more about each other. It is also nice to have some common vanilla interests as well.
# Kinky Interests
Dominance/submission, Bondage, Collars, Pet Play, Light Sensation Play, Heavy Sensation Play.
# Vanilla Interests
Critical Thinking, Moral Philosophy, Political Philosophy, Software Engineering (career, teaching, front-end, back-end, cloud computing), Anime, Tabletop Board Games (cooperative, strategy, euro), Video Games (cooperative, turn based strategy, real time strategy, Streets of Rogue, Factorio), Movies (Dystopian Science Fiction, Dark Fantasy, Dark Humor, Offbeat, Qunitin Tarantino)
# Compatible?
Are we compatible enough to explore spending time together? Imagine yourself, naked, collared, on your knees, with your head in my lap as I gently pet you. I am dressed, but have removed my belt so that it won’t touch your head. Your hands are chained behind your back, leather cuffs, not handcuffs, and a chain giving enough slack so that there is no strain on your arms. Your knees rest on a thick exercise mat, and memory foam pillows. We have taken our time in previous conversations to establish that I am in charge of handling the details, so all there is for you to do is remain as you are while I am petting your back and playing with your hair. If this sounds liberating rather than restraining, or restraining but in an exciting way, then we probably have enough compatibility to warrant a conversation.
# Values
- Objective Truth
- Individual Freedom
- Procedural Justice
# Disciplines
- Critical Thinking
- Software Engineering
# Conditions (not fixable)
- Asperger’s Syndrome
- Aphantasia
- Prosopagnosia
# Disorders (making progress)
- CPTSD (trauma from child consented mistreatment and neglect)
- Hypervigilance
- Alexithymia
# More details
I have a form of Autism known as Asperger’s Syndrome, which has advantages and disadvantages. Some advantages are an immense ability to focus, attention to detail, and ability to create clear and easy to follow protocols in a D/s relationship. One disadvantage is “social norm blindness” which makes it impossible for me to fit in with any social group, and unable to keep up with the constant, unstated changes of a “relationship escalator” without someone willing to give me feedback.
# My baseline standard
Keep in mind that I am a dominant, not a babysitter, so I will invest more of my time with people who are already self-sufficient enough to handle grown up things like their own finances, verbal communication over a phone, meeting somewhere in person, et cetera.
Signo
Áries/Carneiro
Aparência & Situação
Meu Tipo de Corpo:
Mediano
Minha Altura:
1.8 m
Minha Etnia:
Caucasiana
Minha Situação Conjugal:
Solteiro
Com Filhos?
Não
Quer Ter Filhos?
Não
Disposto/a a Mudar de Morada?
Não
Status
Nível Educacional
Diploma Universitário
Ocupação
Tempo Integral
Especialização
Pesquisa / Ciência / Engenharia
Meu Título de Trabalho É
Software Engineer
Eu Faço Isto Em Um Ano
Mais Que $150,000USD
Eu Moro
Sozinho
Em Casa
Não há Barulho
Eu Fumo
Não
Eu Bebo
Não
Personalidade
Meu Comportamento Social É
Reservado, Observador
Meus Interesses e Atividades São
Aprender, Filmes, Jogos
Minha Ideia De Um Momento Ideal É
Ficar Em Casa, Cinema, Ler Um Livro, Jogar Vídeo-Games
Vistas
Minha Religião É
Não Religioso
Frequento Serviços
Nunca
Meu Tipo de Humor É
Seco / Sarcástico
Gosto
Na TV, Eu Sempre Assisto
Filmes
Quando Eu Vou Ao Cinema, Eu Sempre Vou Para Ver Um
Ação, Ficção Científica, Animação, Suspense
Quando Eu Leio, Eu Sempre Leio
Matemática, Filosofia, Política, Religião, Ciência, Ficção Científica, Técnica
À procura de
O Que Você Acha Atraente?
Espirituoso/a, Consideração Pelos Outros, Inteligência
Que Tipo de Relacionamento Você Procura?
Amigo, Íntimo, Dominação, Bondage