I respect the duty of taking charge
AspieDom
Moorpark, California | Man Letar efter Kvinna
Grundläggande information
Förnamn
Sean
Jag kan tala
Engelska
Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som
# To save some of you the trouble, be aware I use this protocol
- I don't give money to strangers
- I don't give things convertible to money to strangers
- If I have not met you in person, you are a stranger
# Dominance and submission
Submission unearned is not submission worth having. I don’t view Dominance/submission as me putting someone else into my box, I view it as us building a box together based on what we each desire, deciding if we both like the box, and if so, continually exploring and adjusting the box as we learn more about each other. It is also nice to have some common vanilla interests as well.
# Kinky Interests
Dominance/submission, Bondage, Collars, Pet Play, Light Sensation Play, Heavy Sensation Play.
# Vanilla Interests
Critical Thinking, Moral Philosophy, Political Philosophy, Software Engineering (career, teaching, front-end, back-end, cloud computing), Anime, Tabletop Board Games (cooperative, strategy, euro), Video Games (cooperative, turn based strategy, real time strategy, Streets of Rogue, Factorio), Movies (Dystopian Science Fiction, Dark Fantasy, Dark Humor, Offbeat, Qunitin Tarantino)
# Compatible?
Are we compatible enough to explore spending time together? Imagine yourself, naked, collared, on your knees, with your head in my lap as I gently pet you. I am dressed, but have removed my belt so that it won’t touch your head. Your hands are chained behind your back, leather cuffs, not handcuffs, and a chain giving enough slack so that there is no strain on your arms. Your knees rest on a thick exercise mat, and memory foam pillows. We have taken our time in previous conversations to establish that I am in charge of handling the details, so all there is for you to do is remain as you are while I am petting your back and playing with your hair. If this sounds liberating rather than restraining, or restraining but in an exciting way, then we probably have enough compatibility to warrant a conversation.
# Values
- Objective Truth
- Individual Freedom
- Procedural Justice
# Disciplines
- Critical Thinking
- Software Engineering
# Conditions (not fixable)
- Asperger’s Syndrome
- Aphantasia
- Prosopagnosia
# Disorders (making progress)
- CPTSD (trauma from child consented mistreatment and neglect)
- Hypervigilance
- Alexithymia
# More details
I have a form of Autism known as Asperger’s Syndrome, which has advantages and disadvantages. Some advantages are an immense ability to focus, attention to detail, and ability to create clear and easy to follow protocols in a D/s relationship. One disadvantage is “social norm blindness” which makes it impossible for me to fit in with any social group, and unable to keep up with the constant, unstated changes of a “relationship escalator” without someone willing to give me feedback.
# My baseline standard
Keep in mind that I am a dominant, not a babysitter, so I will invest more of my time with people who are already self-sufficient enough to handle grown up things like their own finances, verbal communication over a phone, meeting somewhere in person, et cetera.
- I don't give money to strangers
- I don't give things convertible to money to strangers
- If I have not met you in person, you are a stranger
# Dominance and submission
Submission unearned is not submission worth having. I don’t view Dominance/submission as me putting someone else into my box, I view it as us building a box together based on what we each desire, deciding if we both like the box, and if so, continually exploring and adjusting the box as we learn more about each other. It is also nice to have some common vanilla interests as well.
# Kinky Interests
Dominance/submission, Bondage, Collars, Pet Play, Light Sensation Play, Heavy Sensation Play.
# Vanilla Interests
Critical Thinking, Moral Philosophy, Political Philosophy, Software Engineering (career, teaching, front-end, back-end, cloud computing), Anime, Tabletop Board Games (cooperative, strategy, euro), Video Games (cooperative, turn based strategy, real time strategy, Streets of Rogue, Factorio), Movies (Dystopian Science Fiction, Dark Fantasy, Dark Humor, Offbeat, Qunitin Tarantino)
# Compatible?
Are we compatible enough to explore spending time together? Imagine yourself, naked, collared, on your knees, with your head in my lap as I gently pet you. I am dressed, but have removed my belt so that it won’t touch your head. Your hands are chained behind your back, leather cuffs, not handcuffs, and a chain giving enough slack so that there is no strain on your arms. Your knees rest on a thick exercise mat, and memory foam pillows. We have taken our time in previous conversations to establish that I am in charge of handling the details, so all there is for you to do is remain as you are while I am petting your back and playing with your hair. If this sounds liberating rather than restraining, or restraining but in an exciting way, then we probably have enough compatibility to warrant a conversation.
# Values
- Objective Truth
- Individual Freedom
- Procedural Justice
# Disciplines
- Critical Thinking
- Software Engineering
# Conditions (not fixable)
- Asperger’s Syndrome
- Aphantasia
- Prosopagnosia
# Disorders (making progress)
- CPTSD (trauma from child consented mistreatment and neglect)
- Hypervigilance
- Alexithymia
# More details
I have a form of Autism known as Asperger’s Syndrome, which has advantages and disadvantages. Some advantages are an immense ability to focus, attention to detail, and ability to create clear and easy to follow protocols in a D/s relationship. One disadvantage is “social norm blindness” which makes it impossible for me to fit in with any social group, and unable to keep up with the constant, unstated changes of a “relationship escalator” without someone willing to give me feedback.
# My baseline standard
Keep in mind that I am a dominant, not a babysitter, so I will invest more of my time with people who are already self-sufficient enough to handle grown up things like their own finances, verbal communication over a phone, meeting somewhere in person, et cetera.
Stjärntecken
Väduren
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Medelmåttig
Min längd är
183 cm
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Singel
Jag har barn
Nej
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Heltid
Min specialitet är
Forskning / Vetenskap / Ingenjör
Min arbetstitel är
Software Engineer
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år
Mer än en och en halv miljon kronor
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Inget oljud
Jag är rökare
Nej
Jag dricker
Nej
Personlighet
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Reserverad, Uppmärksam
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Lärande, Filmer, Spel
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Stanna hemma, Bio, Läsa en bok, Spela videospel
Åsikter
Min religion är
Inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Min humor är
Torr / Sarkastisk
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Filmer
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Action, Science Fiction, Tecknat, Thriller
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Matematik, Filiosofi, Politisk, Religiös, Vetenskap, Science Fiction, Teknisk
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Kvickhet, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Vän, Intimt, Dominans, Bondage