Firm hand with loving heart for sub/slav

Ich kann sprechen

Englisch

Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als

I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.

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Schütze

Mein Körpertyp ist

Muskulös

Meine Größe ist

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Meine Augen sind

Braun

Meine Herkunft ist

Afro-Amerikanisch

Mein Familienstand ist

Geschieden

Ich habe Kinder

Nein

Ich möchte Kinder

Nein

Meine beste Eigenschaft ist

Arme

Mein Haar ist

Kahl

Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere

Keine Haustiere

Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist

Teilweise Hochschule

Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist

Vollzeit

Meine Spezialität ist

Computer / Elektronik

Mein Job-Titel ist

I,T professional

Ich lebe

Alleine

Zuhause

Freunde kommen gelegentlich vorbei

Ich bin Raucher

Nein

Ich trinke

Nein

In der Hauptschule war ich

Sportskanone/Enthusiast

Mein soziales Verhalten ist

Reserviert, Aufmerksam, Freundlich

Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind

Fotografie, Trainieren, Lernen, Musik, Filme, Autos, Fischen / Jagen, Camping, Computer

Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist

Mit Freunden ausgehen, Daheim bleiben, Versuche neue Dinge, Filme, Entspannen, Ein Buch lesen, In ein Museum gehen

Ein ideales erstes Date wäre

An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility

Ich wollte immer schon versuchen

skydiving

Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als

Freundlich, Cool

Mein Ziel im Leben ist

To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.

Mein Art Humor ist

Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Sadistisch

Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an

Dokumentationen, Anleitungen, Filme

Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Dokumentation, Horror, Thriller

Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer

Country/Volksmusik/Schlager, Rap, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Klassik, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae

Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer

Gesundheit, Anleitungen, Technisch

Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist

Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

Was findest du attraktiv?

Einfühlungsvermögen, Humor, Gutes Aussehen, Nachdenklich, Intelligenz

Wonach suchst du?

I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.

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