Firm hand with loving heart for sub/slav

Je sais parler

Anglais

Je me décrirais comme

I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.

Signe

Sagittaire

Ma silhouette est

Musclée

Ma taille est

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Mes yeux sont

Marrons

Mon origine ethnique est

Afro-Américaine

Ma situation maritale est

Divorcé/e

J'ai des enfants

Non

Je veux des enfants

Non

Ce que j'ai de mieux

Bras

Mes cheveux sont

Chauve

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Pas d'animaux

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Etudes secondaires incomplètes

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Plein-temps

Mon domaine de compétence est

Ordinateurs / Electronique

Mon titre de fonction est

I,T professional

Je vis

Seul/e

Chez moi

Des amis passent à l'occasion

Je fume

Non

Je bois de l'alcool

Non

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Fana de sport

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Réservé, Observateur, Sympa

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Photographie, Faire de l'exercice, Apprendre, Musique, Films, Voitures, Pêche / Chasse, Camper, Ordinateurs

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Lire, Aller au musée

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

skydiving

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, Cool

Mon but dans la vie c'est

To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Sarcastique, Sympa, Sadique

A la télévision, je regarde

Documentaires, Programmes instructifs, Films

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Action, Science-fiction, Drames, Documentaires, Horreur, Thrillers

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Country, Rap, Rock, Electro, Pop, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Santé, Programmes instructifs, Ouvrages techniques

Mon idée du fun

Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Empathie, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence

Que recherchez-vous?

I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement