Firm hand with loving heart for sub/slav

Ik spreek:

Engels

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.

Sterrenbeeld

Boogschutter

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Gespierd

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Bruin

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Afro-Amerikaans

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Gescheiden

Ik Heb Kinderen

Nee

Ik Wil Kinderen

Nee

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Armen

Mijn Haar Is

Kaal

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Geen huisdieren

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

MBO

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Voltijd

Mijn specialisatie is

Computers / Electronica

Mijn functie is:

I,T professional

Ik Woon

Alleen

Bij mij thuis

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Nee

Op de middelbare school was ik

Athleet

In sociale situaties ben ik

Gereserveerd, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Fotografie, Fitness, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Films, Auto's, Vissen / Jagen, Kamperen, Computers

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Naar een museum gaan

Een perfecte eerste date is

An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

skydiving

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Cool

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Sadistischh

Op tv kijk ik:

Documentaires, Educatief, Films

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Actie, Science Fiction, Drama, Documentair, Horror, Thriller

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Country, Rap, Rock, Electonische Muziek , Pop, Klassiek, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae

Ik lees graag

Gezondheid, Educatief, Technisch

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Empathie, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Wat zoek je?

I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid