Firm hand with loving heart for sub/slav

Jag kan tala

Engelska

Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som

I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.

Stjärntecken

Skytten

Min kroppstyp är

Muskulös

Min längd är

171 cm

Mina ögon är

Bruna

Min etnicitet är

Afroamerikansk

Mitt civilstånd är

Skild

Jag har barn

Nej

Jag vill ha barn

Nej

Min bästa kroppsdel är

Armar

Mitt hår är

Skallig

Jag har en eller flera av dessa

Inga husdjur

Min utbildningsnivå är

Vissa universitetsstudier

Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är

Heltid

Min specialitet är

Datorer / Elektronik

Min arbetstitel är

I,T professional

Jag bor

Ensam

Hemma

Vänner hälsar på då och då

Jag är rökare

Nej

Jag dricker

Nej

I skolan var jag

Idrottaren

Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är

Reserverad, Uppmärksam, Vänlig

Mina intressen och hobbies är

Fotografering, Motion, Lärande, Musik, Filmer, Bilar, Fiske / Jakt, Campa, Datorer

Att ha kul innebär för mig

Umgås med vänner, Stanna hemma, Prova nya saker, Bio, Tar det lugnt, Läsa en bok, Gå på museum

Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att

An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility

Jag har alltid velat prova

skydiving

Mina vänner tycker att jag är

Vänlig, Cool

Mitt mål i livet är

To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.

Min humor är

Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig, Sadistisk

På TV tittar jag alltid på

Dokumentärer, Instruerande, Filmer

När jag går på bio ser jag alltid

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Dokumentärer, Skräck, Thriller

När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på

Country, Rap, Rock, Eletronisk, Pop, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Dansband, Soul, Reggae

När jag läser föredrar jag följande:

Hälsa, Instruerande, Teknisk

Det jag tycker är kul är

Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

Vad tycker du är attraktivt?

Empati, Humor, Snygga drag, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens

Vad letar du efter?

I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.

Vilken form av förhållande söker du?

Dejt, Intimt, Hängivenhet