Firm hand with loving heart for sub/slav

Osaan puhua

Englanti

Kuvailisin itseäni

I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.

Kirjaudu

Jousimies

Vartalonmallini on

Lihaksikas

Pituuteni on

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Silmienvärini on

Ruskea

Etninen taustani on

Musta

Aviosäätyni on

Eronnut

Minulla on lapsia

Ei

Haluan lapsia

Ei

Paras puoleni on

Käsivarret

Hiukseni ovat

Kalju

Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista

Ei lemmikeitä

Koulutukseni taso on

Jonkin verran Lukiota

Työllisyys tilanteeni on

Kokopäiväinen

Erikoistun

Tietokoneet / Tekniikka

Työ tittelini on

I,T professional

Asun

Yksin

Kotona

Ystävät vierailevat satunnaisesti

Tupakoin

Ei

Juon

Ei

Yläasteella olin

Urheilullinen

Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni

Varautunut, Sivustaseuraaja, Ystävällinen

Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat

Valokuvat, Kuntoilu, Oppiminen, Musiikki, Elokuvat, Autot, Kalastaminen / Metsästys, Telttailu, Tietokoneet

Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on

Kavereiden kanssa hengailu, Kotona oleskelu, Uusien asioiden kokeilu, Elokuvat, Rentoutuminen, Kirjan Lukeminen, Museossa käyminen

Unelma treffini olisivat

An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility

Olen aina halunnut kokeilla

skydiving

Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan

Ystävällinen, suosittu

Tavoitteeni elämässäni on

To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.

Minun tapainen huumori on

Kuiva / Sarkastinen, Ystävällinen, Sadistinen

Televisiosta katson

Dokumentit, Neuvoa antavat, Elokuvat

Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan

Toiminta, Scifi, Draama, Dokumentti, Kauhu, Trilleri

Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina

Country musiikki, Rap musiikki, Rock musiikki, Elektroninen, Pop musiikki, Klassinen, Blues musiikki, Jazz musiikki, Dance musiikki, Soul musiikki, Reggae musiikki

Kun luen, luen aina

Terveys, Neuvoa antavat, Tekninen

Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on

Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?

Empatia, Huumori, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Ajattelevaisuus, Viisaus

Mitä etsit?

I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.

Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?

Päivämäärä, Intiimi, Sitoutunut