Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Frau Suche eine/n Frau
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Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Fit
Meine Größe ist
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Meine Augen sind
Grün
Meine Herkunft ist
Andere
Mein Familienstand ist
Geschieden
Ich habe Kinder
Ja - nicht zuhause
Ich möchte Kinder
Nein
Körperkunst
Sichtbare Tattoos
Mein Haar ist
Braun
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Keine Haustiere
Bereit umzuziehen
Nein
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Hochschul-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Student
Meine Spezialität ist
Medizin / Gesundheit
Ich lebe
Alleine
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Ja - Oft
Ich trinke
Ja - Sozial
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Coole(r)
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Schüchtern
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Trainieren, Lesen, Musik, Tanzen, Essen gehen
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Entspannen, Clubbing / Bars, Ein Buch lesen
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Nicht Religiös
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Nie
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Mein Art Humor ist
Trocken / Sarkastisch
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Dokumentationen, Dramen
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Science Fiction
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Country/Volksmusik/Schlager, Pop, Lating, Dance
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Fiction
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Intelligenz, Gutes Aussehen, Humor, Esprit
Nach welcher Art Beziehung suchst du?
Oralsex, Analsex, Dominanz, Bondage, Date, Möchte nur ficken