Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Mujer Buscando Mujer
Información Básica
Me describiría a mi mismo como
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Signo
Capricornio
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
En Forma
Mi altura es
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Mis ojos son
Verdes
Mi raza es
Otros
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
Si - No En Casa
Quiero tener hijos
No
Piercings, tatuajes…
Tatuaje visible
Mi pelo es
Marrones
Tengo uno o más de estos
Sin Mascotas
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Unversidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Estudiante
Mi especialidad es
Médico / Salud
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
Si - A menudo
Soy Bebedor
Si - Socialmente
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Del Tipo Simpático
Socialmente, me describiría como
Tímido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Hacer ejercicio, Leer, Música, Bailar, Cenar
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Relajarse, Clubs / Bares, Leer un Libro
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
No soy religioso
Voy a la iglesia
Nunca
Mi meta en la vida
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Mi sentido del humor es
Seco / Sarcástico
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Documentales, Dramas
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Country, Pop, Latino, Baile
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Ficción
Mi idea de diversión es
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Inteligencia, Buena Imagen, Humor, Ingenio
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Sexo Oral, Sexo Anal, Dominación, Bondage, Cita, Sólo quiero follar