Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Vrouw Op zoek naar een Vrouw
Algemene Informatie
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Sterrenbeeld
Steenbok
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Fit
Mijn Lengte Is
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Groen
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Iets Anders
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Gescheiden
Ik Heb Kinderen
Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis
Ik Wil Kinderen
Nee
Body Art
Zichtbare tatoeage
Mijn Haar Is
Bruin
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Geen huisdieren
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Nee
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
VWO
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Student
Mijn specialisatie is
Recht
Ik Woon
Alleen
Bij mij thuis
Is het lekker rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Ja - Vaak
Ik Drink
Ja - Als ik uitga
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Cool
In sociale situaties ben ik
Verlegen
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Fitness, Lezen, Muziek, Dansen, Eten
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Relaxen, Nachtclubs / Bars, Een boek lezen
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Niet religieus
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Nooit
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Droge Humor / Sarcastisch
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Documentaires, Drama's
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Science Fiction
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Country, Pop, Latin, Dance
Ik lees graag
Fictie
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Gevatheid
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Orale Seks, Anale Seks, Dominatie, Bondage, Date, Ik wil gewoon neuken