Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Nainen Hae A Naista
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Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Kirjaudu
Kauris
Ulkonäkö ja Tilanne
Vartalonmallini on
Timmi
Pituuteni on
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Silmienvärini on
Vihreä
Etninen taustani on
Muu
Aviosäätyni on
Eronnut
Minulla on lapsia
Kyllä - Ei kotona
Haluan lapsia
Ei
Ulkonäkö
Näkyvä Tatuointi
Hiukseni ovat
Ruskea
Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista
Ei lemmikeitä
Olen valmis muuttamaan
Ei
Tila
Koulutukseni taso on
Ylioppilas
Työllisyys tilanteeni on
Oppilas
Erikoistun
Lääketieteellinen / Terveys
Asun
Yksin
Kotona
Kaikki on rauhallista
Tupakoin
Kyllä - Usein
Juon
Kyllä - Seurassa
Persoonallisuus
Yläasteella olin
Suosittu
Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni
Ujo
Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat
Kuntoilu, Lukeminen, Musiikki, Tanssiminen, Ruokailla
Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on
Kavereiden kanssa hengailu, Rentoutuminen, Klubit / Baarit, Kirjan Lukeminen
Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan
Ystävällinen
Katsomukset
Uskontoni on
Ei uskonnollinen
Käyn säännöllisesti
Ei koskaan
Tavoitteeni elämässäni on
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Minun tapainen huumori on
Kuiva / Sarkastinen
Maku
Televisiosta katson
Dokumentit, Draamat
Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan
Toiminta, Scifi
Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina
Country musiikki, Pop musiikki, Latina, Dance musiikki
Kun luen, luen aina
Kaunokirjallisuus
Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
Etsii
Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?
Viisaus, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Huumori, Nokkela
Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?
Oraali seksi, Anaali seksi, Ylivalta, Sidonta, Päivämäärä, Haluan vain panna