Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Femeie În căutare de Femeie
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Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Zodie
Capricorn
Aspect și situația
Tipul corpului meu este
Fit
Înălțimea mea este
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Ochii mei sunt
Verzi
Sunt de etnie
Altele
Starea mea civilă este
Divorțat(ă)
Am copii
Da - Nu acasă
Doresc copii
Nu
Body Art
Tatuaj vizibil
Părul meu este
Șaten
Am mai multe de asta
Fără animale de companie
Dispus să mă mut
Nu
Status
Nivelul meu de educație este
Diplomă de Colegiu
Starea mea forței de muncă actuală este
Student(ă)
Specializarea mea este
Medicină / Sănătate
Eu trăiesc
Singur(ă)
acasă
Liniște totală
Fumez
Da - des
Beau
Da - sociabil
Personalitate
În liceu am fost
Cool amic
Comportamentul meu social este
Timid
Interesele și hobby-urile mele sunt
Exercitare, Citire, Muzică, Dans, Mese
Distracția bună pentru mine este
Cu prietenii, Relaxare, Clubbing / Baruri, Citind o carte
Prietenii mei mă descriu ca
Prietenos
Vizualizări
Religia mea este
Nu sunt religios
Particip la servicii
Niciodată
Scopul meu în viață este
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Genul meu de umor este
Sec / Sarcastic
Gust
La TV întotdeauna mă uit la
Documentar, Drame
Când mă duc la filme, mereu merg pentru a vedea
Acțiune, Științifico-fantastic
Când ascult muzică, mereu ascult
Stat, Pop , Latino, Dance
Când citesc, eu citesc
Ficțiune
Distracția pentru mine este
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
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Ce vi se pare atractiv?
Inteligență, Frumusețe, Umor, Rațiune
Ce fel de relație doriți?
Sex oral, Sex anal, Dominație, Sclavie, Partener de întâlniri, Doar vreau să fut