Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Kvinna Letar efter Kvinna
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Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Stjärntecken
Stenbocken
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Vältränad
Min längd är
162 cm
Mina ögon är
Gröna
Min etnicitet är
Annat
Mitt civilstånd är
Skild
Jag har barn
Ja - inte hemma
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Kroppskonst
Synlig tatuering
Mitt hår är
Bruna
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Inga husdjur
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Student
Min specialitet är
Medicin /Hälsa
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare
Ja - ofta
Jag dricker
Ja - feströker
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Den coola
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Blyg
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Motion, Läsa, Musik, Dansa, Middag
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Umgås med vänner, Tar det lugnt, Nattklubb / Bar, Läsa en bok
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Vänlig
Åsikter
Min religion är
Inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Mitt mål i livet är
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Min humor är
Torr / Sarkastisk
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Dokumentärer, Drama
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Action, Science Fiction
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Country, Pop, Latino, Dansband
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Fiktion
Det jag tycker är kul är
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Intelligens, Snygga drag, Humor, Kvickhet
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Oralsex, Analsex, Dominans, Bondage, Dejt, Vill bara knulla