Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Жена тражим жену
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Мој опис
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Хороскопски знак
Јарац
Изглед и стање
Моје грађа
Витка
Висина
163 цм
Боја очију
Зеленa
Раса
Остало
Брачно стање
Разведен/Разведена
Имам децу
Да - није/нису код куће
Желим децу
Не
Телесна обележја
Тетоважа на видном месту
Боја косе
Смеђa
Имам
Немам кућне љубимце
Спреман/Спремна за селидбу
Не
Статус
Образовни ниво
Виша школа
Мој радни однос
Студент
Моја струка
Медицина/Здравство
Живим
Сам(а)
Код куће
Увек је мирно
Пушим
Да - често
Пијем
Да - у друштву
Личност
У средњој школи био/била сам
Кул
У друштву сам
Стидљив(а)
Моја интересовања и хобији
Вежбање/Тренирање, Читање, Музика, Плес, Вечере
Како замишљам провод
Дружење с пријатељима, Блеја, Клубови/барови, Читање
Моји пријатељи кажу да сам
Дружељубив/дружељубива
Погледи/Животни ставови
Религија
Нисам религиозан/религиозна
Идем у цркву
Никада
Мој животни циљ
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Мој смисао за хумор
Сиров/саркастичан
Укус
На ТВ-у увек гледам
Документарце, Драме
У биоскопу увек гледам
Акције, Научну фантастику
Увек слушам
Кантри, Поп, Латино, Денс
Увек читам
Фикције
Како замишљам добру забаву
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
Тражим
Шта Вас привлачи?
Интелигенција, Изглед, Смисао за хумор, Домишљатост
Какву везу тражите?
Орални секс, Анални секс, Доминација, Везивање, Састанак, Само јебање