Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Hölgy keres Hölgyet
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Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Jelentkezzen
Bak
Megjelenés és helyzete
Testalkatom
Fit
Magasságom
1.63 m
Szemeim színe
Zöld
Etnicitásom
Egyéb
Családi állapotom
Elvált
Vannak gyerekeim
Igen - Otthonon kivül
Szeretnék gyerekeket
Nem
Testművészet
Látható tetoválás
Hajam színe:
Barna
Háziállatjaim
Nincs háziállat
Költözködés?
Nem
Állapot
Képzettségem
Főiskolai végzettség
Foglalkoztatásom
Tanuló
Specialitásom
Orvos / Egészségügy
Lakáshelyzet
Egyedül
Otthon
Nyugodt környezet
Dohányzom
Igen - sűrűn
Kedvelem az alkoholt
Igen - társaságban
Személyiség
A középiskolában
Klassz srác
Szociális magatartásom:
Szégyenlős
Hobbijaim:
Edzés, Olvasás, Zene, Tánc, Vacsorák
Tökéletes szórakozás?
Barátkozás, Lazítás, Clubbing / Bárok, Könyv olvasása
Így látnak barátaim:
Barátságos
Nézetek
Vallási nézeteim:
Nem vagyok vallásos
Részt veszek a vallási szertartásokon:
Soha
Életcélom:
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Humorérzékem:
Szarkasztikus
Ízlés
Mit nézek?
Dokumentumfilm, Dráma
Mit nézek a moziban?
Akció, Tudományos fantasztikum
Amikor zenét hallgatok, mindig meghallgatom a
Ország, Pop, Latino, Dance
Mit olvasok?
Fikció
Mit jelent a szórakozás a részemre:
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
keres
Mit tart vonzónak?
Tudás, Jó kinézet, Humor, Szellemesség
Mi után kutat?
Orális szex, Anális szex, Domináció, Kötözés, Dátum, Csak kefélni akarok