Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Donna Cerca un/una Donna
Informazioni di base
Mi descriverei come
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Segno zodiacale
Capricorno
Apparenza
La mia corporatura è
In Forma
La mia altezza è
5' 4 (1.63 m)
I miei occhi sono
Verde
La mia etnia è
Altro
Il mio stato civile è
Divorziato
Ho Figli
Sì - Non a casa
Voglio figli
No
Body Art
Tatuaggio visibile
I Miei capelli sono
Marroni
Ho una o più di queste
Nessun animale
Volontà di trasferimento
No
Stato
Il mio livello di istruzione è
Maturità
La mia situazione lavorativa è
Studente
La mia specializzazione è
Medicina/ Salute
Vivo
Da solo
A casa
Tutto è calmo
Fumo
Sì - Spesso
Bevo
Sì - Sociale
Personalità
Tornando alle Superiori, Ero
Fico
Il mio comportamento sociale è
Timido
I miei interessi e Hobby sono
Tenersi in forma, Letture, Musica, Ballo, Cene
Tempo speso bene secondo me:
Uscire con gli amici, Relax, Andare per locali, Leggere un libro
I miei amici mi descrivono come
Amichevole
Punti di Vista
La mia religione è
Non religioso
Partecipo alle Funzioni
Mai
I mie obiettivi nella vita sono
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Il mio umorismo è di tipo
Sarcastico
Gusti
In televisione guardo sempre
Documentari, Film drammatici
Quando vado al cinema vado sempre a vedere
Azione, Fantascienza
Quando ascolto musica ascolto sempre
Country, Pop, Latina, Dance
Quando leggo, leggo sempre
Narrativa
La mia idea di divertimento è
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
In cerca di
Cosa trovi attraente?
Intelligenza, Bellezza, Umorismo, Acume
Che tipo di relazione stai cercando?
Sesso Orale, Sesso Anale, Dominazione, Bondage, Incontri, Voglio solo Scopare