Soft Butch Top Looking for Play/Friends
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Iowa City, Iowa | Kobieta Szukam Kobieta
Podstawowe Informacje
Widzę siebie jako osobę
Hmm. This is the difficult part!
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
First, let me get this out of the way: If YOU are of the MALE SPECIES, GO AWAY! NOT interested in dangly bits!
I'm a good-looking, good-natured, fun, young-looking 40 y/o soft butch who can be shy upon first contact. I am new to the community, but learning. I have recently joined a BDSM group that has been around for over 10 years and expect my experience as a Dominant partner will increase by leaps and bounds.
I am 5'4" and a somewhat muscular 140-145 lb. That may sound heavy for my height but believe me I don't look it. I look fit.
I am primarily a top. I don't have a true submissive bone in my body. I like to have things my way in the bedroom but I can make the occasional compromise, all at my discretion.
I like to administer pleasure/pain, but if you are looking for a true sadist, I am not it. I am not into humiliation or interested in true psychological control. Im not interested in 24/7 interaction, either. I believe in "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
I will tie you and tease you, flog you and paddle you, blind you and gag you, use you (within our set limits) and allow you to service me (if you are really good-LOL), but, above all, I want you to derive pleasure out of the experience. There is nothing that I enjoy more than to have my play partner asking for more or to be allowed to cum and to allow it or deny it at my discretion.
Now, just because I enjoy BDSM, it doesn't mean that is the only kind of interaction I want.
I love to dance. I enjoy good food and going out for a drink, or just for coffee. I like action/adventure and sci-fi movies. I also enjoy my solicitud. I can sit down and read for hours. I think TV is good for background noise, but don't have any specific favorite shows I have to rush home to. I hate talking on the phone, but don't mind texting.
I am looking for more than scene playing and sex, but NOT commitment. I am looking for casual... no long term commitments, and no exclusivity desired at this time. Friendship is OK too.
You should be in good physical health. I am healthy and expect to continue to be that way. I prefer those that take good care of themselves and their appearance.
You should have a sense of humor and be able to keep your sense of humor. I hate drama!
You need to be truthful and trustworthy: say what you mean and mean what you say. I hate liars or people that try to play me.
Above all, you need to have a personality. I can not stand people that are milquetoasts in everyday life. Submissive in the bedroom need not mean submissive outside of it in MY book.
If you want to learn more, let me know.
Znak
Koziorożec
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Wysportowany
Mój wzrost
5' 4 (163 cm)
Moje Oczy Są
Zielony
Moje pochodzenie
Inny
Mój Stan Cywilny to
Rozwiedziony
Mam Dzieci
Tak - Poza Domem
Chcę Mieć Dzieci
Nie
Budowa Ciała
Widoczne Tatuaże
Moje Włosy Są
Brązowy
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Nie mam zwierząt domowych
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Nie
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Licencjackich
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Student
Moja Specjalność To
Medycyna/Zdrowie
Mieszkam
Sam/Sama
W Domu
Wszystko Jest w Porządku
Jestem Palaczem
Tak - Często
Piję Alkohol
Tak - Towarzysko
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Wyluzowany
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Nieśmiały
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Ćwiczenia, Czytanie, Muzyka, Tańczenie, Posiłki
Mój Pomysł Na Dobrze Spędzony Czas To
Spędzanie Czasu z Przyjaciółmi, Relaks, Klub/Bar, Czytanie Książki
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Przyjacielski
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
Nie Jestem Religijny
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Nigdy
Mój Cel Życiowy To
To be a good model to others and be a contributing member of society.
Mój Rodzaj Humoru To
Oschły/Sarkastyczny
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Dokumentalne, Dramaty
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Akcji, Fantastyka
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Muzyka Country, Pop, Latynoska, Taneczna
Gdy Czytam Zawsze Sięgam Po
Fikcyjne
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
Go to a nice restaurant and follow up with some dancing. Then go home and enjoy a night of intense play and pleasure.
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Inteligencja, Atrakcyjny Wygląd, Poczucie Humoru, Dowcipny
Jakiego Szukasz Związku?
Seks Oralny, Seks Analny, Dominacja, Bondage/Niewola, Randka, Tylko Chcę Umówić Się Na Seks